My rituals

As I have mentioned before, I sometimes work into the middle of the night, eating a lot of snacks. I don't clean up before sleeping because I don't want to wake up anybody. If I need to work off my bad breath fast, I would brush, floss, and scrap a few times a day, plus mouth rinse with hydrogen peroxide, or just diluted hydrogen peroxide.

The day before, I would trim my bush. I shave with a razor along the direction of hair growth, so there will not be any problem to allow the hair to grow back. Otherwise, I have to use those products as suggested by Gillette to control the bumps and razor burns, or to shave every few days till eternity.

At one time I was completely bald, except a small triangle on my lower belly. But you know, it's difficult to shave the balls bald, and the directions of hair growth are complicated. I cut myself at the same two points over and over, though the wound are pin sized. So now I keep the hair at my balls short instead of bald at difficult areas. Also, I do not shave on the day, so I will not have to cancel when accident happens. The same reason not to brush and floss within hours of the appointment.

Some girls like the clean bald look. Others don't understand why guys have to do it. It also depends on culture. To some girls who are not used to this, bald balls mean I am being treated for some skin disease or even worse. I think my unique hair cut don't bother the girls that I see, except when the hairs on my balls are very short but not bald. I was told that the tinkering sensation when kissing my balls are too much to bear.

As for reason why I do it, my template answer is trying to look bigger and longer. But I think with all the rituals, the date doesn't seem so short, confining to the hour.

Then I will try to take a bath before the date. When I first came to Cali, very soon I needed to find the most moisturizing body wash I can find to save my skin. A couple of years later I developed allergy like skin rash all over my body. My dermatologist can suppress the symptoms but the cause is a mystery. All he can do is giving me an injection if the affected area is large, and steroid cream if the area is small. I was seeing him with increasing frequency. Somehow I started applying moisturizer all over my body after every bath and the problems disappeared. I also found out that steroid creams are very different from each other. Once out of desperation, I used somebody else's steroid cream to relieve my suffering. For my own prescription, I apply the whole tube just to feel slightly better. For this cream I tried, trace amount can make the rash disappear in hours.

I got compliments about my skin from time to time. But once after the bath, I went to get a massage to kill time before the appointment. The standard massage 'oil' here is some sort of petrolatum solution. The cleanup at the end is by hot towels. After all that, my date not only complimented my skin, but caressed me and examined my skin at close range. At the end, she was still clueless.

Some girls use not only body scrubs, but a pretty effective hard scrubber. I feel the resulting smoothness weired. I do use facial scrubs, preferably with micro pores, not on the face but on even more sensitive skin - foreskin.

Jessie Parker update

Back in June, I have posted Jessie Parker's complain about the lack of clients. Now on Craig's List she posted her new rates. She used to be 38 but now she became 37. Her rates drop from $500 to $400 per hour, increased to $300 for half hour, and introduced the new rate of $200 for a bit of time.

Cat

After I tried something different, Laura, I decided to pick some safe bets. But the situation is depressing. I did noticed for a while that the relevant website rankings kept falling. I thought there are more and more popular websites. After some checking, I can see that the estimated number of johns visiting are dropping fast for over a year.

Take cityvibe, still the top ranked national directory, it's trying to keep it's number up by competing with itself, by offering free craigslist like service in parallel. So I think eros is the top dog now if you sum up the traffic in all the domains, eros-la, etc.

Looking at my area of cityvibe, there are 19 listings with reviews. Oh yes, TER is so successful in some ways that cityvibe can't beat it, so it go along. The two obviously hot girls are reviewed as rip-offs. I don't know who's stupid or who's playing tricks here. The others are the usuals, old, ugly, can be any body's pictures, and cross postings from Craig's. LA has a few more times reviewed listings, but then you have to screen out the fake reviews. It's like microsoft selling you a claimed-to-be bullet-proof operating system, at the same time bundled it with anti-virus software, requiring you to manually inspect which ones are viruses.

Reviews are important but really no big deal. The best is to have real contact with some real people if you are not afraid that some shadowy people have your phone number. They will be worried if you have anything to do with the internet. If you have personal contact with some real people via the internet, it's next best. The worst is relying on the internet only.

If I screen the unreviewed ads that catch my eyes, I usually ended up in taking risks on border line cases. If I have time and money to spare, I do like to take risks. This time I don't expect too much and just wanted a safe bet, until next time.

So I picked Cat, under 20, something like the Disney Princesses that I mentioned earlier, mainly because she came back so soon after new year. I think in the short term, she may be back more often than I want to see her - as good as a local.

She got a suit in a eerily quiet hotel. I should have brought my own music. I was a little pleasantly surprised when she opened the door. From her professional pretty pictures, I think she's near the bottom of the cheer leader pyramid - slim but not skinny, who can support somebody on her shoulders. In real person, she looks much nearer to the top of the pyramid, which I preferred.

I got naked lying low on the bed while looking at her undressing. She paused a little when she was in her aqua blue bra and pantie, kneeling down on the bed. Good move, but I didn't move a muscle. I just liked to watch her undress. She took everything off, smiling, and paused. Again I didn't move a muscle. I like to watch her, real breast, medium sized that hangs well, perky nipples. While I was watching, she moved slowly towards me on her knees. She expected to embrace me with her breasts, but I started kissing her flat stomach instead.

I didn't know why she didn't show more of her legs on her pictures. After years of training, I would think she possibly has thick legs. But she has a pair of nice and lean legs. Her feet is small and sexy. Her pedicure looked pretty professional, long and perhaps extended. The color is whitish that I loved - eatable. But at a glance, while I was touching her ankle with my lips, I spotted some cracks or holes on her nails. I didn't go any further. Later, when I was looking at her hands, I realized that the cracks were tiny deep blue decorative patterns on her manicure and matching pedicure. The lesson is - plain and simple.

When she started the blow job, she wanted it to be picture perfect. She leaned sideways on my body so I have full view of her. She curled her body and legs so her feet was right in front of my eyes. Without stretching my hands I could reach her legs down to her perfectly shaved pussy.

I did the doggy and continued sideways entering her from behind. I didn't want to get too excited looking at her. When she felt that I was not threatening, she opened up her legs so I could go deeper. Inevitably, I turned her over, holding her cheek to cheek, penis into pussy.

I was holding her and kissing her cheek affectionately. Again she turned her head and gave me a lingering kiss on the lips. The last time she did it she ended it with a whisper, "I like regulars."

A high dose of hooker stories

London or not?

I was shocked by Nia's mention of recent London's price. I did some homework, got carried away, because it's not easy. Now let me finish what I set out to do.

The Internet price for an hour is still #150, and #200 will give you a model material East European - at least with clear shot of face, waist and legs. So it's not a lot of difference from the 1999 price, which Punternet put on it's FAQ pages. So I believe you can get a rather lovely British girl for #150 not via the Internet. Outside London it will be slightly cheaper, with more part-timer feel than glamorous.

With the Internet, I'm certain there are many photogenic British charging #300, #350 and up.

The other reason for my interest is that I'm a currency trader, a lazy one, with some GBP left in my account that I should have sold long ago.

There used to be a London girl, Carrie of Max's girls I think, who come to visit LA very often. She frequented the LA local discussion board when she's not here. Haven't heard from her for a long time. With the current exchange rate, it's totally not worthwhile for her to visit anymore.

The image is a purely random selection from the advertisements and reviews.

Cents and Sensibility

Or: Cents, seconds and clicks
Or: Melodrama vs Live and Death
Or: How American call girls get their pay

When you are on a dinner date, time flies at some five, ten, or tens of, dollars per minute. It seems like easy money, or is it?

There's one corporate tradition for some American boss to delivery monthly pay checks in person, to every employees that he practically can. Bloomberg did it, I think. One of the purpose is apparently to increase the sensibility of employees to the source of their salary. It's not your qualifications, it's not your performance, it's not that you can quit any time and find something else waiting for you, it's who is willing and able to pay you out of his pocket, so to speak.

A question come to mind. Did you ever have a client who give you the money at the end solemnly? He tells you that the money is his whole day's pay, or that he saved up for weeks or months. And asks you to treasure the money? Guess not :-)

Now it's good to have a local captive market, that clients cannot go far to get alternative service, and competitors cannot come from all over the world all of a sudden. I can think of professionals charging hundreds of dollars per hour, which looks like easy money.

But take lawyers for example. Their starting scale shot through the roof during the tech bloom. Because big and small corporations fight fiercely with traditional law firms for new recruits. At the end, these corporations are manufacturers and service providers on a large scale. Similar to drug companies selling millions and millions of little pills, offering good pay for pharmacists.

The traditional concept is that big guys don't deal with chicken shits. But in today's world, it's all about chicken shits, which are the big deals. A car cost some 20, 30 grand. What about a laptop? A camcorder, a cell phone, or a wireless router? To offer good salaries you need to sell millions and millions of your product.

To justify your existence, all you need to do is to save a cent or two on the material cost once a while, a second here and there on the manufacturing time. It's hard, like sucking blood from dead chicken bones, but that's why you have good pay.

I would say from CEO to new recruits, the mindset is all about cents and seconds. It's not all of course, but common. If not cents, than it's dimes, depending on the scale. It's about optimizing the work flow, saving labor, hence cost and time, again. If you know how to improve but don't act immediately, others will, always sooner than you think.

If your work is highly creative for example, it does not make sense to waste time on something mundane, be it a few seconds. Take a walk, watch TV, if that relaxes you or you enjoy it, it's not a waste. Long lunch is OK for me, coffee is OK at any time, but re-typing something you see on the monitor is not, not even copy and paste.

If you live with the few mundane seconds, it may well be a slippery slope. You may find your idle time longer and longer, and harder to put it to good use. Similarly, if you know of a possible way to save one cent, you better find time to go at it before it's too late.

It's not melodrama, it's live and death, when you find out that your pay is no longer justified.

What else you can think of to do to your minimum wage Walmart employees? Automate the checkout and make them all redundant, keep the ones who can work flexible hours on other things. At the same time, spend a billion to improve your image.

My rant is the follow up of a comment that I made about call girl advertisements online. The image of sitting at home, browsing leisurely on beautiful babe pictures, with a phone in hand, is not very true. Not for me and neither for significant numbers. Maybe at work, but only if you have a secure encrypted tunnel to bypass the company network. And it's not likely that someone will come close to your monitor when you are hard at work.

If you don't search in advance, it's not likely you that will see the one you want. Some need advance notice, from hours to days. For busy ones, she may not be able to find a slot for you at all. For the low volume ones, she's not likely to pick up the phone when you call. So I usually maintain a list.

I may be a special case, often I have to and I like to call in the privacy of my car. You don't want to do a lot of things on the driver seat even if you have an online connection. PDA is never something to surf comfortably.

I was thinking that ideally I should be able to download something like a digital business card for the girl I like, with one click. So a picture with name, number and perhaps rate would be ideal. So you can save it on your cell phone, USB drive, laptop, PDA, whatever. Some girls do this, but most feel not classy to do it perhaps.

More importantly, my short lists are very volatile. I search for different things at different times, making most short list pretty short lived. And that there are so many new girls all the time. Anything more than a click or two to make a list while surfing will be too tedious for me to worth the effort.

I have tried some alternatives, using my camera phone to take pictures of the monitor - one for the girl and one for her number. It works but the digits may become unreadable. Now it's easy to save to the laptop the whole page of advertisement with a single click. But still you may miss some critical information when you are confined in the driver's seat on the go. But if you have a picture with key information on, you can call while driving. PDA's are too small for the whole advertisement.

Often you have to visit personal escort websites, where gallery, rates, and contact details are all on separate pages.

I think it's good for everybody if the escort directories provide 'feeds', just as blogs, banks and credit card companies. I hate it when it's originally digital, you look for the info, retype everything. Good except perhaps for the escort directory, when other sites can easily copy and put it on their sites. Now you don't pay the top sites so much for the traffic, but to show that you pay good money for it, and therefore your ad must be alive and current, and you must have clients to sustain the ad, be it pleasing or ripping off them.

Can I take it easy and do it otherwise, including using the keyboard? Probably not. For me it would be tedious enough to turn me away from surfing the ads, instead of enjoying them. If I force myself it would be double standards, one for the company and one for myself. It could easily end up in split personality.

Hello again

So I was too ambitious about the last title. It should have been Hello Laura. This one Hello again, Laura. Cat will come up later.

Laura asked me to promise her not to wait at the hotel front, so I could see her like 'that' when she arrived. She also told me that she got ready at record time. She didn't look any different, but I know later she didn't have time to take a bath, with perfumed body scrub, apply moisturizer all over, and have time for the skin to absorb.

So I cut down on my sashimi activities. But when I was finishing at her ankles again, I spotted her professionally done pedicure, long and strong on every toe, perfectly painted pinkish red or purplish red. May be unconsciously I was thinking about salmon or red wine. I was attracted to it. I don't know if her claim on her profile that she had natural nails is still valid. If true that would be exceptional. She was glad that I noticed, the same with everything they work on to look good.

I sat with my knees bent at the end of her long legs holding her feet. It was unfortunate that we didn't have enough time. I could have talked her into washing her feet or even taking a shower with me. But that didn't stop me from giving her some wet kisses on her toes. She's proud of them. And naturally, like any smart wicked woman would, she tickled my dick with her foot while I was holding the other.

But you know, she has a kid, and that inevitably makes her look a little different from a jail bait. Her tummy is still sexy lying flat on the bed, natural birth perhaps. But doing a blow job is a different thing.

Chanel is really something. She isn't a model and not a jail bait anymore. But after I have seen her naked for so long, I am still attracted to her body. She likes to walk around naked. Going in and out the bathroom to take a shower, around the bed to fetch her clothes, and even making me coffee naked. Sometimes she would sit naked next to me talking, to make sure that I will call her again. But I hated that. Every time we meet she would take off her clothes and dive into the sheets in no time. I could take off the sheets and look to my heart's desire, but it's not the same as standing on a pedestal by the mirror.

She has her imperfections. Maybe she was on the pill for some time, or off some drugs, legal or otherwise, that made her slim. It was from skinny to meat on the bone sexy to a little worse. At one time I almost dumped her, after watching her for a long time putting back her clothes on. I was looking through the mirror so she didn't notice that I had the full view. I did see her less when she's not calling me. Recently, she was off the pill again, or back on drugs. I could see her fit flawlessly back on her jail bait costumes, her causals.

I decided not to see Laura again. It's not just her imperfections. Kiss isn't necessary, but I don't feel much kissing her, both times. But my decision was inconsistent with my tips, because I appreciated that she came on short notice, in a cab, etc. I bet she freshened up her makeup when I got out of the bathroom cleaning up myself. Again she walked me to the door naked. She said, "See you next year". I didn't manage a response because I wasn't a natural liar. I hesitated for a split second. So she smiled, "if that girl is still missing".

Goodbye Laura, Hello Cat

The date with Laura started good. She looked good in her strapless bra and throng. But she took it off in no time and jumped into bed. They all don't want to let clothes get dirty. That's why it's not safe to bring atmospheric music to the date. It's too easy to make a fool of myself. There's the irony: you can pay more once a while for the sure thing, but then you don't expect to see her again.

Laura stated that she's late twenties, so she might be about 30. Since she has a baby face, she looked younger than her age, so she ended up about late twenties. Laura isn't small - 5'10, and not a skinny girl. With that size and age, her body comes out rather nice. But immediately I can see that her sizable boobs are real. It sags a bit and I can see the hang lines. However, it's not at all bad, especially for real ones. Though I am more used to work of art type fake ones, or smaller younger ones that hang better.

She has nice long legs, full bottom, and nice skins so I started the sashimi thing as usual. When I was light kissing down pass her ankles I took a glance at her feet. There were smooth for her age, clean, but her nails are painted blood red. I didn't enter a trance so I stopped there.

Before we started, she asked me what girls I had been seeing, as if to see what kind of clients I am and what the market situation is. I do see other girls from time to time when Chanel was around. But Laura wouldn't know any of them by name. So I simply told her that I am the kind of guy who like to see one girl at a time. Chanel disappeared a month ago, meaning that I had to find a replacement.

That motivated her enough to try giving me a blow job that I won't forget. I didn't. Even with the condom I felt her teeth. I was really surprised I was in pain, because certainly she wasn't at all new to the game. Maybe she tried too hard. Being a gentlemen I hang on, hoping she would stop anytime. She stopped, but only briefly when she moved around like the handle of a clock. She doubled her effort because I wasn't hard enough. It got worse at times and I almost had to tell her at several instances.

Before that, when I was going down on her, she stopped me and asked to check if there's any sores in my mouth. So imagine that if my favorite music were playing.

She did kiss a lot, though not with tongue. She looked good in the doggy position, with long legs and large bottom. I finished with missionary, giving her some more kisses. She walked me to the door naked when I left. She has potential.

Right before the new year, suddenly I had some free time around noon. I called her again. She might be late on short notice and I had to go at 2pm. Also, first she had to check with the hotel manager who she knows to see if she could check in early. At the end we decided to have a go, she needing to take a cab because her car was out of action.

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Print vs Internet Advertisment

Here the county newspaper charges $100+ per inch per weekday. I guess it's on the inside main pages. The rates are kept rather secretive unless you ask for quotes. Because newspapers are supposed to be dying, under competition from network TV, cable TV, radio, satellite and the internet.

The county, along with LA, is the top 5 in US in terms of population, buying power, and real estates. But nobody advertise like this, except for grand opening of legit (no sex) massage parlors and day spas. Nobody need that sort of penetration day after day.

Most respectable papers do not accept escort advertisements. Here the only adult advertisements are well hidden. The adult classified section is 1/8 of a page, hidden in about 10 pages of classified new and used car sales. The page number fluctuates a lot and there's no entry on the index page. So if you don't know there's such a section, you will miss it altogether.

I guess the classified cost a fraction of the main pages, since if you want to sell a used car, you won't even pay $10 a day. They could charge a lot for the adult classified thought, but looking at the revenue and effectiveness, it doesn't justify to pay a lot for the ads already there.

City/town classified should be a fraction of the cost of county newspapers, as the reach is a lot less. But it will be pretty useless. Typically people come from all over neighboring counties into some specially friendly cities, like Santa Monica, with high concentration of working girls.

High circulation papers is a good way to entice new johns into acting out first time. They will remember where to look for phone numbers when they get round to do it. If 1% or 0.1% of male population do it on special occasions, that's an awesome amount of business to catch.

But here the ripoff level on phone books are 100%, adult classified 100% for escorts, massage parlors about 80%. It's not 100% because MP owners don't like high profile publicity, such as word of mouth via the internet. If only they provide decent goods, locals can sustain them for decades.

The only papers for escort advertisement are like LA Express, at the height, pages and pages of classified like ads, with text only, or passport size photographs, or larger ads for higher end escorts. But the circulation is limited. Nobody will subscribe regularly. You only buy it when you are actively looking for it, in limited numbers of vending machines, or gas stations. A lot are free with little difference. But nowadays, if you are looking for it, it's so much easier to do an internet search. The search engines don't return lists of used Ford Escort dealers anymore.

For the internet, it's $100+ a month for cityvibe and eros. I can't imagine how newspapers can be more effective for 'repeated offenders', that is, johns who actively looking for escorts to see, as opposed to someone coming across some ads and having the urge to try first time. People come across counties, and travelers across the nation who come for business and pleasure. That's why I think internet ads are not cheaper than the kind of newspapers here.

And imagine the newspaper clients. Rather mobile populations with no computers, no internet at work or at home. The same for porn magazines and ads in there. If you have a credit card and can afford a decent monitor, who wants to buy porn magazines anymore?

I would differentiate the early days of internet, roughly pre-1999 for example, from the current status. Cost of hosting capacity, bandwidth, website design, all subject to exponential decay. If you had ads on the dominant escort directory, and have a website for pretty pictures that printed papers couldn't beat, it did cost you.

In the early days, you pray for the escorts to advertise on the net, so you don't need to drive out there and look for those newspapers, and then you have to read through pages and pages. Escorts are reluctant to move on or pay for the extra expenses. As with any other advertisements, getting you to call or go to their door is 90% success. It's rather easy to polish your few words then, than to air brush your pictures now. It's also effective to avoid criticism from internet reviews or discussions. Site after site, the numbers of ads are far less than it should be if most respectable girls put an ad on the internet. They also charges more. So it's worthwhile to pick up the print. You got ripoff just the same anyway.

Now I would think the internet is the main stream. Though of course you still got the bottom end in those newspapers. There will always be new johns and tourists who would come across those papers in strip clubs, bars and clubs, and can't resist to call. And girls in central locations will probably sell half hours via those channels, while doing only full hours on the internet.

It's rather interesting to compare other places. London lacks dominant review sites and dominant escort directories. They are rather popular but not that I would pay $20 per month for, and for the girls $100+. And rightly so. I wouldn't bother. Price and service are usually on the personal websites. And with that many talents you will only look for somewhere convenient for you, instead of driving or taking the tube across town. Most of the reasons for slaving over ads and reviews are absent.

The most popular review sites and escort directories are still rather primitive. The paid site captain69 may be better, but still little different from many years ago. But I think it will be more convenient than printed newspapers and magazines. So I wonder what advantages the print has over the internet, and hence charge more? But certainly if I see a decent agency ad on a decent paper with decent circulation, I will tend to trust it enough to call.

In the early days, someone just put phone booth calling cards on the net. If you call the number they will put you through to the girls, taking a cut. But now I would think it would be worthwhile to put an ad on punternet for $10 or so?

The sex141 site is phenomenal, for a city of less than 7 mil. Remaining ads on the printed papers are ripoffs. They can send photographers to you once you touch down. They host everything since even if you want your own website, you may not be able to withstand the hits. They also have forums, mostly used as reviews, which do not turn advertisers away. It's expensive. Everybody from entry level to the high end pay up. It's so successful that there are weekly magazines that extract the best from the internet and recommend to readers. For other girls, you just move close to those girls with internet ads, and hang something at the door.

The subject fascinates me, after so many years of frustration. First, the internet is so bad that you have to drive to London or LA to pick up calling cards or LA Express. Then the ripoff ads and fake pictures. Then the false reviews.

Busted News

See link at title. The house of prostitution is in an up scale gated community with a golf course. You can see some of the problems if prostitution is legalized in US.

Even though it's highly illegal, everybody in the neighborhood knows about it for years. They give out fliers in the neighborhood. You can see the high traffic in the drive ways. They even modeled for clients outside the house and had loud parties.

It's the culture thing. In the rest of the world it will be discrete. If you want up scale parties you go to expensive clubs. In dense cities, often residential, commercial and red light district is in the same building, with different entrance and lifts. So if you are discrete, nobody need to know. In UK suburbs, they try to keep it a secret. If not, many johns will not come because they feel unease. And if the neighborhood is annoyed, they will intimidate the johns by having someone around the house or apartment to give every john the look. It simply makes sense to be discrete even if that's perfectly legal. Even in deprived areas where prostitutes turned the whole street into brothels, residents can express their disapproval by neighborhood demonstrations. If you don't understand why the busted girls behave like that, you don't understand the problems with legalization in US, including me.

In US the johns care much less about the other residents. In dense apartments, nobody knows anybody by design. In rest of the world, it's usually a few apartments per floor, so at least you know what's going on. In low density condo and houses, American johns drive directly into the garage, drive way, or at least there are plenty of parking spaces. In rest of the world, johns have to come face to face with other residents much more often.

And if you are not careful, advertising in the London phone booths can easily look like a child's tiny scrap book. In a 'good' day in Vegas, walking on the streets, you cannot avoid getting a flier full of escorts unless you have a female or child with you. They just allow you to walk through in that case. Though the city has equally the resources to kill it; all big business are against it.

And then there's the combination of gang culture, corruption and police resources. Obviously in this case the girls have the blessing of some VIP, who harmlessly thinks that the neighborhood deserve some fun. Even though the neighbors know about it for years, it's the local newspaper who tipped off the police, who have no choice but to act. The police has a lot less power and I bet a lot less resources than in Asia and Europe. Though it's extremely unlikely that, if you stand out and complain, you will get a drive by shooting in retribution. But precisely this is the fear that drive Americans into gated neighborhoods. You can scare the shit out of people if you leave a toilet roll at their door. Americans are generally very polite if you know where they live, work, their license plate and phone number.

If legalized, it will depend on civil courts. Developers will sell houses and commercial units with no-prostitution clauses. I don't know how much it make sense, but leaving the housing Association to deal with it will be ineffective. They may have retired FBI, retired lawyer or ex-CEO on the board, who will threaten you with legal action immediately if you are late in trimming the trees. But since they all live there, I doubt if they are effective in dealing with serious matters.

It's mind boggling for others in the civilized world, that if you walk into any retail stores or company asking for help for a tiny bandage, they will be very alarmed and consult their resident lawyer if they have one. Yet at the same time, there are numerous people driving without license, numerous fake ID's, numerous guns.

In the rest of the world, if you give up the control on prostitution, you still have the control of immigration. In LA, it takes a year of more to build up a case against prostitution. Police have no power to check the status and ID of people, sort of. In rest of the world, it's a matter of a regular check for illegal immigrations to stop trafficking.

Is it a good thing for escorts? Price will drop to reasonable levels as other parts of the world. Those charging the entry level of $300 on the internet cannot charge anything like it anymore. There will be more young girls joining the trade as in the rest of the world. Magnet for illegal immigrants. If there is a model for the things to come, it should be the rich Asian cities with income approaching US on average, a fraction of the price at the entry level, minus the police effectiveness, multiple the number of illegal immigrants, minus the border control.

It only make sense for a member of parliament to stand up and say she likes the Swedish model, where providers are legal while johns are not. That looks good for her and nobody will remember that after 5 min. Practically, if any nation can raise the benefit levels to that of Sweden, many problems will be solved by itself. In UK they cannot get rid of all street walkers even though both sides are illegal. If you further legalize the girls, they will just parade everywhere. This make it easier for johns, and while still illegal, it's now safer by numbers.

On a side note, the police discovered detail record of johns, many are professionals, and promised to prosecute. This is precisely why screening to verify real name is dangerous. Famous movie starts are busted this way.

Advertising and review sites ranking 2

Below is the ranking of some advertising and review sites. Reach is the average daily user visiting the site, per million internet users. If the reach of TER is evenly distributed across the nation. For a city of 10 million, there are 1,795 visitors daily. Since these ranks are based on the users who installed the alexa toolbar, my guess is that the number of these visitors is underestimated at least by a factor of 10.

Website	Rank	Reach/mil
sex141	349	936
theeroticreview	2,914	179.5
cityvibe	10,357	98.5
punternet	12,727	69
punterlink	16,637	80
bigdoggie	20,802	50.5
captain69	27,700	31
eros-la	29,280	35.5
troothsayer	31,208	16.5
puntingzone	35,881	15.5
blonde-escorts-uk	54,502	23

Price, law and sex travel

When I was doing some research, comparing the price in LA and London, I came across an interesting proposal to solve the decade old telephone booth problem in London. The problem has it's root when prostitution became 'legal' for one girl in a dwelling unit. And if I were to write some sex travel blog, this will be it.

In 2006, UK overtook US in broadband penetration, both about 45% of households (17% by population). Internet penetration is 60% in UK vs 70% in US by population. Mobile phone penetration is 90% in UK population vs 50% in US in 2005. Now it's more like 100 to 110% in Europe and Asia, meaning many people have more than one mobile phone number. Why on earth can they not get rid of the prostitute calling cards left in West End phone booths?

Working girls sell their time a little like airlines and hotels, via several channels. I'm not debating how many do it and if it's a good thing. For one it saves you the trouble of offering specials, when some clients never want to pay the full price again. The phone booth is one such channel. I've been to very nice flats and met very nice girls. Rather than sitting idle in your luxury flat, it's not a bad idea to put up some cards and do some quickies if nobody knows.

In the early day's of internet escorts in LA, they are not thinking of using the internet to save time for the johns with internet access, and save advertising money. It's simply a new channel for the higher end clients. If you want a virtual line up with pretty pictures, book in advance for a specific busy girl for an unrushed section, you have to pay enough for it. The majority of girls who have been advertising on newspapers are rather reluctant to move to the internet. You have to pay more than double; internet ads are more expensive. You cannot get away without pictures, or blurry printed pictures. You have to deal with professional photographs, maybe emails, reviews, write an essay, basically a whole new set of unfamiliar things.

For johns, it's a no brainer. Internet escorts were a lot fewer, charging twice the price for the same quality of girls. You get a full hour, but I doubt if Compartment girl will say that all 60 mins are put to good use by most clients. The rip-off problem isn't solved; it's actually worse because you have higher expectations of the pretty pictures. In short, timing is everything.

If prostitution is somewhat illegal in London, what great tips offs are the calling cards! Since it isn't, local Magistrates aren't prepared to give heavy fines to the street bumps who put the cards up. In 2005, the phone companies experimented with blocking the numbers found on the cards, after a 30 day notice. The theory is that the prostitutes have to reprint thousands of cards with a new number, which makes it expensive for business.

The bill was given up at 2006. Prostitutes can simply buy a stack of SIM cards, one pound each, and instead of printing 100,000 cards with one number, they print 100,000 cards with 10 different numbers with no extra expenses. You have to put up new cards anyway, often daily, to cover other cards that covered your cards, or to replace cards cleaned up by council workers.

It's ugly but rather harmless on the broad busy London streets. But in residential areas close by, it's on the face of small business owners, and their customers. Once they have voluntary neighborhood teams to help with the cleaning up.

Still this is a rather harmless example of legalizing prostitution, while losing control of something else. There's could be more.

Most apartments in London has a main gate and a security system. You buzz the maid to open the door for you. In some Asian cities, they just post the security code on the advertisement, to avoid any trouble of getting through. If you for some reasons want to gain access to some buildings, you can just search through the escort ads. I have been to some nice 3 bedroom semi-detached houses in England, no different from any other houses in town.

Americans are obsessed with neighborhoods. You type in your post code and find out immediately what each house worth. Same thing, you can see where how many sex offenders in your neighborhood map. In CA, it's the land of the Associations. Sometimes the whole city is a giant Association, with population from 10,000 to over 100,000. So you pay the Association fee twice, you own development and the city. And you sign off many of your rights twice. Including the right to leave the trash bin out on the roadside for more than 24 hours after collection day.

I have been to very nice apartments, Beverly Hills and Newport Beach. You can always find out the security code from your friends, or some morons over private mails. Once I saw an ad that my favorite girl came back for the week. I immediately call up the booker, who begged me to see another of her girls. Guys just drove over, pass the gate, and fight for their turns in the parking lot with blocking and other tactics.

He sounds like the typical Hollywood Director, Producer, Executive type, over the hill with a pile of money and penchant for pretty young thangs and a life that probably doesn't live up to his wildest dreams.

Did I really sound like that? I didn't know how long she ever spent on my earlier blog entries. I'm one of the few who can write with an 'accent', which you will come across (along with other flaws) if you don't turn off the sound in your head, which is reading 101.

But whatever, Happy New Year from me.

Moral vs Legal

The legislation of anti-prostitution laws has little to do with morality. Society is better without alcohol, but it is not possible to ban it. Some argue that legalization leads to taxing the income of prostitutes, which is not moral. Well, you can always make an exemption. But if they get full rights and full protection in return, it's very moral.

Sam brought out the porn star argument. Once in LA some providers allow you to tape the session, trying to make it legal.

Abortion is a little different. At the end, the doctors have to do it, testing their believes. Others voting on the issue are mostly based on their strong believes, as they are not affected directly.

Prostitution affects many other people directly, in particular street walkers and brothels. UK is a good example. One girl per apartment is OK. But before you know it, the whole residential building and even the whole street are full of working girls. Often the less desirable real estates are occupied. But that make it worse for the already underprivileged kids whose parents can't afford to move. Or, some girls can afford to buy a three bedroom house in the middle of a nice neighborhood, turning the backyard into a discrete parking space.

Zoning isn't practical. A concentrated red light district will be huge. If prostitution is only allowed in commercial zones, it will get similar rejections from business neighbors. There are always patrons who don't want to go in and out of a joint like a restaurant. They prefer discrete residential houses and apartments. Someone will cater for them even if that's illegal.

For the same reason, UK can't get rid of illegal streetwalkers even though indoor prostitution is legal or close to it. There are always somebody desperate enough to turn to illegal activities to survive.

In some Asian cities, the incall girls invade the high end hotels in convenient locations for johns. Management can't do much about it because it's legal. Even if you have the right to decline service for certain guests, you have to do the detective work that is hard for LE to do.

The no brothel policy is too easy to by pass. One floor for a hostess club. The other floor a hotel with a different owner, whose guests are mainly couples walking from downstairs.

I know it's a not in my backyard syndrome, but it's not addressed at all by Wendy. Does it bother anybody that your neighbor have a visitor per hour most of the day? What to tell your kids?

Well, you can use the lucrative extra tax to pay for a lot of things and get elected. To me this is just another form of eminent domain, where local politicians take properties against the wish of owners, with a fair market price determined by the courts of sort, also elected officials. The land isn't used to build schools or roads, but to sell to big corporations to build like luxury apartment complex. The tax revenue is then used to pay for a lot of social services. The Republicans/Conservative win because the big corporations are happy. The Liberals/Labor win because those rely a lot on social services are happy. The only losers are the middle class who lived in the same old houses for 30 years. This doesn't happen in other countries. When schools and roads are build in the public interest, the fair market price can be really good, the property owners are like wining a small lottery. Social security is almost non-existence, or funded centrally rather than relying on local supplements. Local politics has nothing to do with it.

What women want?

I came across an almost dead escort blog with the above title. She said, "Their searching to find that perfect equation of looks, personality and social status. That's makes for a happy dillusion." I was still thinking that she has something to offer. Then I realized that she really had to say "what women want to pick up from a bar?". I am fairly certain that she deleted this part from the blog recently.

A man who could make me laugh
Communication is a big factor
A good rough fuck helps in a relationship
He has to know how to talk to me
Communication is very important to me
I have met to many men that can't even express two words
Men really are clueless how to treat women, speak to them or even make love

Well, is that too much to ask to have a one night stand? Or is it too little to ask, one who could talk well in 10 sec, that's about the time she needed to decide if she would go to bed with him. Again she deleted that part.

And of course the all important man who can make me laugh. Is it that important? Or is it just another way to say that it's better not to have any delusions? If a woman has an eye for a man, she would give him chances to show all off his talents, including a sense of humor. Once in a blue moon I made a remark that made everybody burst out laughing. The girl who had a crush on me said that I rarely tell jokes, but when I do, it will be killing. I don't think it's the other way round. You don't develop a crush for a man mainly because he can tell jokes well.

Well, a man (and a woman) have about 10 sec to speak with his boss, 5 sec with his boss's boss, and 2 sec with the CEO. How far you go up the corporate ladder all depends on your performance in these crucial seconds. It's a bit cruel to have the same sort of stress level when picking up a one night stand off work. I would rather go to a dating agency, make a video and try to have a relationship instead.

She also said that woman can multitask, like juggling 10 oranges while man can only focus on one job. I think she's thinking about talking on the phone, while applying polish to her nails, and waiting for her toe polish to dry, while the pie is about ready in the oven. You really want to focus on one job one project, with a good enough reward that you don't need to multitask.

She didn't realize that the joke is on her. I swear that she deleted this part. That finally she picked up a hot guy, who can't express two words. She followed him to his home, startled by some noise while making out. It was his mother that he lived with. She freaked out and left.

Re: verification

In addition to my comments here, I want to add some more about what's the excuse of verification, employment in particular, in countries where prostitution is legal or tolerated.

In US, with a prostitution record, it's a real threat to revoke the custody of your children.

Here the common form of employment verification is to call up the listed number of a company, and ask for the client by name. Well, US is not just about large corporations. With globalisation, many well paid jobs are gone. Those doing well have a captive local market where the clients just can't go away or find someone from afar. To me, it looks as if plumbers and electricians in CA are doing rather well. Some trivial jobs cost hundreds of dollars, mostly go into labor cost, legal and other insurance. Will a local plumber give you the number of his company of several people? No, it's too personal unless he isn't afraid to admit that he's a john. Small business are supposed to be important to the US economy. Fast food restaurants are multi-million dollar business. What would you think if someone give you a McDonald's number? Will the owner admits that he's the boss? What about seeing someone employed by McDonald?

Price, price and price

Price came up again, this time from Nia. This time she pushed my button so I can't resist to join in. "Numerous escorts charge GBP 300!", and the subject of discussion is about an escort who charges GBP 750!!

Once upon a time, all respectable internet escorts in LA charges at least USD $300 per hour. If you "undercut yourself" with a lower rate, you will get phone threats. The same escorts charges $150 if clients come through LA Express sort of newspaper, for a quickie half hour. At the same time, GBP 150 gets you significantly better quality girls in London, 120 in the South East suburbs. GBP 200 will get you model material girls from top tier agencies. Quickie in London is 60 GBP? At the time, the East European invasion was minimal, and one GBP is roughly 1.5 dollars.

Years later, the magic number in LA is still $300. Yes, this is ridiculous when real estate goes up double digits per year. And the dollar falls down hill. Many escorts in London now charges some USD $600 ?! Wow. I think the Irish starting point is 300 Euro? Which is a lot easier on the wallet. I must do a price comparison as my new year resolution.

As for the 750 GBP escort, that's $1500 by the way, any discussion other than market force are fruitless. She's the expert in setting her own price. She should have reasonable idea about how much of her clients would be willing to pay the new rate. If she is so dumb as to get it all wrong, she can dye her hair with a new stage name and start all over again.

It's the same as some guys saying that increasing from $300 to $400 is too much to afford. They will not see the escort again. It's all market force. But still the phone may ring non-stop.

The jailed NYC agency owner said it all. His girl friend is the famous $1000 / hr woman. One can say that sites like TER and TBD creates some sort of exclusive club. When you pay that $1000 you are immediately the member of the exclusive club, and you can't resist to write a review as initiation. You go back home to Wichita/Cornwall, point to her internet picture and brag that you have seen this girl, perfect, not even bothering to tell others that she doesn't look a bit like her pictures.

Blogs of interest

I don't want to label anyone a player or playmate just because they mentioned it once in their blog. It will also help readers that the player/playmate list contains bloggers who explicitly write about their experiences.

Re: offending the ladies

Male staff and male guests do seem to enjoy spotting prostitutes. But are they any better than female staff and other female guests? Male staff may look at you from head to toe as a compliment. They may also stare at your flesh impolitely, which they can't do to any other women. Or they just want to pick someone to look down upon with hostility.

I was once in Bangkok for a night by the airport in a rather new hotel, which explains the lack of patrons. A male staff solicited me, escorted me out to get a girl friend to bang, on a hotel taxi, with a hotel driver. When the four of us came back, the female receptionist insisted on me paying the extra guest fee right there. It may well be the rules, but she wasn't at all helpful or courteous. I couldn't just told her to put it on my tab. But we have to stand at the front desk until I paid and signed for it. All the time she wasn't looking at anybody. She got everything done without looking at me.

Since my girlfriend set foot in the hotel, the male staff never stopped looking at her. The staff to guess ratio was about infinity to one. The next morning, the guy came in like a chef to ask if everything was OK. I asked him to translate a bit. I found out that she wanted me to take her to Pataya. Certainly I would have, if I wasn't credit limited at the time. Still she kept me company until my later afternoon flight and inevitably another bang in between. The guy stared at her so much that after he left the room, I understood with difficulty that my girl friend begged me not to allow any one else in.

When the time came, I thought she would prefer to leave alone. Actually I wouldn't want to leave the hotel with a hooker. But she wouldn't do anything else but to follow me. I felt as if there were male staff in ever corner. They were genuinely courteous, with semi Japanese greeting postures, or showing off their English, 'Had a good night, sir?'.

I should feel like a VIP but I felt awkward. She cannot feel any worse, shy like a kid. She was half a step behind me always, grabbing my arm, using me as a human shield. The lobby was hell with a staff ratio of infinity to one. Even my driver on the previous night was there to greet me goodbye. To her, it must be 'if looks could kill'. Once out of the main door, she was alive again. We waved goodbye as in a rock concert, me at the back of a taxi, she just stood there.

I can't say anything special about my girl friend, but I can tell you how we met. When I got there, the manageress brought out three lovely girls sitting around a table a few yards in front of me. I just couldn't pick one. I even pictured how good each girl would look beside me when we go out touring, or dinner at night. At the same time, I was extremely distracted by the sexy young, fit, leggy manageress in her tight short. If I were any more experienced, I would have asked if she was game and picked her. But it was a complete standoff. It was like the prelude to a group gun fight in Westerns, everyone zoomed to the poker face of all others in turn. Then someone opened the partition wall. Like a flood gate, it felt like a wave of girls coming out and stood by the walls so as not to obscure each other. It took me about a minute to pick my girl friend without taking a closer look.

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Some girls hang out at hotel bars, and some girls hang out at Vegas casinos. Other than those, I would think girls would hate to be picked up on their way to and out of hotels. In US it would be risky unless you don't screen your potential clients. In some Asian cities, the top internet girls just invade the best hotels, who can't do much about them. They do incalls and they have all the money to pay for everything. You can sit at the lobby just as any other respectable tourist, and watch the hookers go by. They dress decent but it's too easy to spot if you are local. If only they would allow themselves to be picked up, you don't need no Internet. Every time I went in and out of these hotels, the hookers (plural) in the lift, or the ones (plural) waving down taxis outside the door, all seemed better looking than the one I booked.

Physical? Emotional?

This is in response to Caroline's comment, regarding what is more satisfactory in return for the fee paid. First of all, excuse my choice of words, the chosen ones may not closely describe what I actually meant.

Bear in mind, as Compartment girl would say, most clients are easy; a little sex, a little cuddle, with the occasional fake or real orgasm.

You are all of a sudden very horny at home. Instead of picking up someone at the bar/club, making her 'laugh' along the way, you call up the most good looking girl at your short list that you can afford, and then work her as hard as she allows. If things are that simple, I would have saved a lot of money. It's pretty boring after a while, and when beginner's luck subside.

You are all alone for the whole evening in a strange place on a business trip. You call up some stranger for company without expecting much. There's no simple answer to what is better.

What is easier to buy? Of course a hard fuck. Many girls rely on looks to attract new clients. They avoid heavy sex, and it's easy to do to new clients: most are easy, aren't they? Other than that, the seasoned professionals that have regulars are most happy if you enjoy yourselves. So if you are up to it, a hard fuck without breaking their rules, you are most welcomed to try your best porn moves on them. Chanel can do a mean blowjob bareback, but she would at least semi cover her face with her hairs. I could have any position for any length, but just not directly in front of the mirror. She doesn't like to be pumped at the edge of the bed while I'm standing up, looking directly down at her reaction. She would rather hold me tight and put her tongue in my mouth instead.

It's harder for responsive sex, the positive kind. Who can flood a river after a few kisses down there? Who can have a nipple erections, artificially made or not? And then the orgasm. Is that easy to fake? I don't think so. I think most client would think faking is a good thing, especially it's convincing, at least the girl feel something, she feels the force. Not faking anything is good too. I bet few client would tell you that "I know you faked it last time, please don't do it again". Also, the faking is so bad that you don't want to hurt her feelings. Some girls have to fake it, moaning or even orgasm, when the client finish prematurely.

Emotional is as hard as the definition of it. Is orgasm physical or emotional? Is maintaining an erotic, exotic, romantic, etc, atmosphere emotional? Who's emotion? For some girls I would be jealous recommending her to others. For others I would pimp them, hopefully she would treat me better. I would think kissing is an emotional thing. Without chemistry it's hard to enjoy it.

I hit it well with Rebecca. She reminds me of first dates with new girlfriends, but of course without strings attached, and I probably won't see her ever again. Indeed she asked me at least three times directly or otherwise, what was I going to do that evening. Of course I wasn't thinking of something free, but it would be very affordable, with dinner included. But if I had the chance to see her again, most likely the electricity will be gone. It's not something easy to buy.

Emotions cost you more money for certain. Strange enough, at times the need that I feel to get back at Chanel make me feel alive, a sort of emotion I guess. Once I swear I will not kiss her at all throughout the date, no foreplay, no body worship, give her a hard fuck, to make her feel that she is just another hooker getting older each year. I don't think it will work but it doesn't matter. Sometimes something work. This time, when I see her freshly trimmed eyebrows, and the expensive cover-up for her alleged minor allergy outbreak, I couldn't control myself, and kissed her as if I was an oxygen tank. All the time I was wondering is that the reason she was late for another half hour to please me? Or is she going to be watching her watch secretly and leave immediately after one hour to see her VIP? I never ask her anything; it will just be another lie. After all, she's the professional liar.

Fantasy wear 2

Role play, fetish are dirty words here. And so is costume. Even though many girls have an open mind, they just don't put those words on their advertisements. It's a big problem if you care to ask. Many aren't have anything unusual in their wardrobe, and many have never done any role play.

In contrast, the Brits are supposed to be on the more conservative side of the Europeans. Most have costumes at their apartments, and playing games are their second nature. If you ask for something say school uniform, they may ask you right back, "which style?". They have at least the old and the new style. (The Japanese have several specific styles.) But if you didn't book in advance, you are likely to be disappointed. The popular uniforms are mostly likely in the laundry.

I think the adult costume industry is a somewhat US thing. Other countries will be thinking of the real uniforms rather than the fantasy versions. I came across ads of some companies selling second hand authentic school uniforms, just like worn panties. But the fantasy versions have their advantages. They are designed to fit the average woman rather than the original wearers. These costumes are supposed to be sexed up, so few materials are used. They are supposed to be impractical so the materials doesn't need to last. In other words they are cheap, and disposable.

Take the classic school girl outfit by Leg Avenue. This one shows most flesh and naturally it's also the cheapest. It's a one size fit all as there's nothing much to fit. The 'shirt' has no button but a knot. The 'skirt' just wrap around itself secured by velco. But the result can be surprising. Chanel has the skinny teenager look when I met her, and that image was etched in my mind ever since. She doesn't look that small but her actual size is 0 to 2 at most. So I though she would look gorgeous in that outfit, particularly with her long flowing straight hair. But I was surprised to notice that her legs aren't that thin as the model. And she looked a little big in that tiny uniform. It's not bad, just not a cute school girl as I expected. In addition, she was a bit shy and hiding her body as that didn't look particularly good on her. I couldn't take a good look and it wasn't that much fun.

I gave Emma, the ex-flight attendant, the outfit as a surprise gift before I asked her to wear it the next week. So she had plenty of time to prepare, and she did. I didn't expect much as she isn't a spinner type. She's somewhat tall that makes her look bigger than typical school girls. Her demeanor is somewhat mature perhaps because of her job. But it turned out that she's the best.

I should have known better. She work out all the time. She's the kind of girl who has a sexy gym outfit for her cam dating. She made minor adjustments to make the outfit look better on her. Her longer legs are a plus. She also worked on her hair style, with twin rubber banded pony tails. Instead of the long socks and shoes, I had a pair of tiny short socks that fold out like little flowers. She's so cute in those. She's confident enough to show it off and play around in her house wearing the outfit.

Some costumes are more like the real thing: less sex and more authenticity. But it's harder to make it look good. I know a woman who fits this costume well. So cute that I made a sex tape. One child birth didn't change that. Not a problem after two: she shrink back to old size. But after the third, she looked awkward in that outfit. The big bow tie and other cute details made her looked silly.

So although it's fun to dress your girl like a doll, the way you like it, it's always hit and miss, a possible waste of time and money, unless she tried it before buying. I did bring my girls to shopping. Mostly lingerie because it's safe for the pocket. The most expensive time is about a grand. Leslie got a pair of shoes and then some. It's not as expensive as it seems. She spent at least a couple of hours in the shops. It's not as boring as it seems. I followed her into every changing room that I can to make sure that everything fits. I liked the surprised reactions of other women in big changing areas like Vic's. I liked to see the worrying expressions on the sale girls. I also like the look of some sale girls, as if saying, "I'm better looking than this girl, how come I don't have boy friends like this?". But pity that she isn't a hooker. The gift are also down payments for future service. I would go out with Leslie again and fuck her until she wouldn't go anywhere but the malls first.

The cheapest time is a couple of hundreds. Jordan is new in town and if her driving license is legit, she's asking me to give her gifts for her 21st birthday. It could have cost me big time as usual, but she wasn't prepared. She was surprised that I agreed to it during lunch. She waived down other cars in my car to ask for directions to the nearest mall. She picked a store where teenagers hang out. She needed some sexy causals. She took 10 outfits into the tiny changing booth. I had lots of fun cramped inside it with her, discussing her picks so everybody else can hear. Mostly I dismissed most of it for various reasons, the common one is that I then don't need to pay for them. At the end she got a few, the one I liked most is a cross between a basketball vest and a cheer leader uniform.

I also learn that although there are so many pretty cute costumes, but if it isn't your thing, it probably won't work unless your girl is a model. Or at least it won't worth the extra money or effort. I have no other fantasies except perhaps Princess Belle. But a full blown ball grown is a bit expensive.


I have a thing about office outfits like this. Simple and effective for me. I had a girl friend with a wardrobe full of these, where she spent her first paychecks on. Most of her outfits were more complicated and fancy, more cute than sexy. But I would be turned on when she wore the right one. Once after dinner I took her to the back seat of a double decker bus on our way home and went down on her, ignoring the other double decker bus passengers who looked.

Once I ran into Chanel in a suit like this. The color is intense light blue that I couldn't forget. Her skirt is even better. It's not a skirt but like a little black dress suitable for office. She never dressed like that with me, either thrift store clothes or expensive jeans and Chanel shoes. I asked her and she didn't want to talk much about it. She agreed to wear it for me the next time though. However, it's a different color, not intense light blue but deep navy blue. She even went to bed in it, but she wouldn't let me take off or mess up anything as usual. Laura would be good in it. But I would get something cheaper for her for a test run once she replies to my email.

Shoes are different. You always look better in the right shoes, which also gain you better postures. It's like lingerie is better than the imperfect naked body. So it have to be sandals. Shoes will disfigure your feet and give you bad smells. Please don't. I like last season's 4 inch sandals. Women do wear those heels going out, so it isn't just for my enjoyment. But practically, I doubt if my girls would wear them often other than in bed with me.

Fantasy wear

Laura got herself a nice room in a nice large hotel near a family resort. I love these hotels. There's always some guests around. Nobody will notice anybody else. She opened the door in a strapless sexy bra and a very sexy matching throng. In her pictures, she's good looking standing straight up facing the camera. All 5'10 inches and 140 lbs of her looked good for her price bracket. But she wore a see through teddy that I have doubts about. Now that the teddy was gone, I had to burst out "woooh" at the door. Not a gentle "wow" as a compliment. But more like a refined version of outburst when the home team scored. She's not a skinny Victoria's Secret model, but she looked thinner and prettier than her pictures. I followed her into the room. Just when I was not looking, before I examined in more detail how sexy her throng was, she was completely naked in bed.

Working girls had a limited choice of clothing. (Street walkers included; it's all about flesh, flesh and flesh.) For incalls it is usually sexy lingerie, classy or otherwise, to clinch the deal for first time clients. For outcalls, it's anything but to look like a call girl, to look out of place. For the LA weather, in 5 star hotels and seedy motels, jeans and casual top is often the default choice.

Most of the time, when you like what see, it's untouchable. Girls don't want their priced processions being broken, under too much wear and tear. More importantly, they want to keep their outfit clean, so they can walk out clean after a shower, or save some time for laundry.

For new encounters, it's about the law, or the circumvention of it. Both sides are under pressure to do what officers of the law wouldn't. Getting naked and starting foreplay right away are good. Then everybody can start to relax. Sometimes it's psychological. You can do anything but taking their clothes off.

This is a case when gifts are rewarding. They have to model it for you right? Let you take a good look, and let you play around in it. Quality lingerie is a good bet. Perhaps it's too good. I hate the idea that they show it off to their boy friends and other clients. But then a gift is a gift, loosen up.

But soon, I found out that my girls aren't lingerie models. Or else they would have been making a good living out of it. Finding something that fits is a challenge. Then there are the flaws in everybody that you know or not. Even with easy to wear super bras and wonder bras, the outcome is often disappointing. Models have perfectly shaped D or C cups. Sometimes your girl wear it well with all the right curves, but they just don't have the long model legs to make the throngs look extra sexy.


So if I have to, I would pick something like this. A fancy pattern that is visually stimulating and a texture that I can feel. In addition, after looking through several catalogs, I picked this white almost see through suit, a jacket with a mini skirt, to go with the black/red bra and black throng. I will be really turned on if somebody wear that to work. Imagine that I can take the whole outfit off bit by bit, or rip it apart all at once so nobody else can have it.


The problem is, for the impractical suit, Chanel (the professional lier) wasn't keen on trying it because it was one size too big. I had to return it because I didn't think she was interested in getting a smaller one at all. For the very practical bra and throng set, she gave me various reasons not to wear it for me again, like she lives with her family and don't want them and her friends to see her going out with something erotic underneath. But I think she wants to keep it as part of her private wardrobe, not to associate it with anything in her secret life. I had the luck to see it only twice.

The search

Caroline suggested some music for my next encounter. Pitty that if Chanel is still around, I can bring my laptop, loop the music while we are at it, and see if that works. But bringing romantic, passionate love making music to see a new girl is a risk.

Since the holidays is coming, I have to do something or I have to wait till next year. So I got the idea. I'll blog the progress of my next encounter. If you don't hear any more of it from me, that means it's a flop.

Guess what, our county have such a good reputation that we are spoiled for choice for touring girls at this time of the year. Here is a second home to many of them. Aviance (picture left 1) came back only after a week or two. She didn't bother to advertise. She just left a message on our local board calling for her old clients to PM her. And then there's the sweet Katie (2). More of the same, Jenny (3) and the new girl (4). I never met them, but numerous guys will vouch for their realistic pictures. One of these days, I'll book six of Katie's and Jenny's all at once. There are plenty of these girls, but they seldom touch down together on the same turf. Each of them have to wear a Disney princess costume while walking into my room in a Disney hotel. A single Katie and Jenny's type will be fun when fitted with Leg Avenue fantasy collection. Not much talent is involved. But predicting when they will turn up next is a problem.

So I booked something like (bottom 5). Laura, 5'10 tall, 140 lb. Some meat on the bone for a change. I may like some soft cushion while cuddling at this time of the year. By the way, if any girl include her feet in her pictures, and her toes look a fraction as good, I will certainly book her, provided all other things equal. I can only see vaguely Laura's pedicured toes in one of her pictures. The other reasons that I booked her: she's local, reputed to have nice skin and use a lot of moisturizers, more mature than the Katies and Jennys.

And the preparation has already been started. Sometimes I work into late nights at home. I like the peace and quite. I eat snacks, but after that, I don't want to wake up everybody by using the bathroom. So I have bad breath occasionally. To be sure, it will take a few days to work it off. Some of my teeth are densely packed, the main cause of bad breath for me. The best tooth brush doesn't help at all. So I floss when I can. And then the tongue scraping, the remaining cause. As for mouth wash, the most effective I think is half strength cheap hydrogen peroxide. It oxidize everything on contact, visually stunning. Now there is the traditional Listerine type mouth wash with H2O2 added, for it's whitening effect.

Not that Laura is very expensive and this date is very important to me. It's becoming some sort of ritual to me.

Hotel dress codes

Do hotels check visitors before allowing them to get to the guests' rooms? I thought they don't do it anymore? When booking outcall girls, I don't remember I have the front desk calling me if I'm expecting a visitor. Not Bel Age at Sunset, not the Newport Beach Hotels, not Airport hotels, not Disney Hotels. When I'm visiting an incall girl at hotels, I always walk straight in. Whether they are built like Vegas hotels, with open lobbies, or traditional hotels that you have to walk right pass front desk, nobody did anything. Perhaps nowadays they have cameras everywhere, in the lobby and in the lift, maybe all the corridors. They also know which electronic lock changed state.

In my early days I booked a girl with pictures that looked like a Hollywood starlet. I was silly to ask her to put on some sexy outfit. But she did just that. It was a relatively chilly fall in LA. She had a pair of sexy sandal on, more of the healthy type than the provocative type. Flawless French manicure on all fingers and toes. Pale bare legs that matched her manicure. Soft cotton, low cut short skirt. A short white T-shirt that showed off her lower back. The front of her T-shirt is slightly pointed, just enough to cover her belly button. But if you really want to check her belly, you can still get through at a suitable angle. Her blond hair is a little bit messy but she tied it up neatly into a pony tail. Her face is pale with hardly any makeup on but it looked like she put on some very bold red lipstick in a hurry. She didn't go over her lip lines or go under. That would be gross. It just wasn't sharp like using a fine paint brush to do it for hours.

Her internet pictures must be 10 years old. Instead of a starlet, she looked like a woman over 30, but a very sexy woman. She can stand shoulder to shoulder with a teenager wearing the same outfit, without feeling inferior in any department. She is a typical small blond, at 5'5, not any thicker than any skinny teenagers. She doesn't look bone dry like some woman at her age and weight. And she is the opposite of tan.

The small hotel is at the West Hollywood boundary trying to charge a price fit for more central locations. You need to park your car at the gated underground lot. The lobby is tiny with a pretty reception right at the front desk, wearing a nice suit that fits. The lifts are key card operated.

My girl got pass to my room all by herself. Even though she is hot and sexy, I'm sure both female and male staff will be helpful, and let her through without challenging her. She reminded me of the other sexy women that I found in seemingly unlikely places.

The most sexily dressed women are at:

1. pre-school opening hours
2. hardware stores on weekends
3. supermarkets on Mondays

Because I rarely go to these places at those hours, but I can spot sexy woman consistently, so my conclusion must be statistically right. Women have excuses not to dress up or dress decent in these places. It became competition grounds with other young mothers, and testing grounds for their sex appeal to males. Call girls just don't cut it on the sexy list (well except street walkers that are not restricted by any dress code). Most of them all over the world tried to blend in with the other hotel guests. The one I met in Bel Age wore black leather long pants. She's sexy but looked more like a trophy wife, a younger Ivana Trump, than a hooker.

Heather Lives

While I was online yesterday, I get a "me bong me bong" from LA's own legend, Heather. She was a pioneer in may ways, multi-talented, who was also a writer. Since my laptop sound is always turned off by default, it's too late when I noticed the flashing meebo tab among many other tabs I was browsing. I missed her by a minute. So let me make a quick self analysis on her comments.

I'm totally anonymous. When I was not, I ran into shadowy figures, one went so far as to photograph me with a porn starlet on the first meeting to prevent me from kiss and tell. So this blog is an outlet, when you have no body else to tell. Bragging is part of it, so is confession. But if you look at what some other bloggers charge, there's nothing much for me to brag about.

Can I hold a relationship? I remembered one comment saying that he has relationships one after the other, and don't understand the need to cheat, something like that. Can you imagine that if one is too successfully in relationships, will he miss all those searching for a new parter, the initial thrill, the first kiss, the passion, the lust, and the dying passion? Sometimes you want to relive something without string attached. Sometimes I feel more alive, more boost.

I would call the commenter's relationships serial relationships, each one heading for an iceberg sooner or later. Each one is a mistake. Each relationship is a temporary one waiting for the next one to be better. How about a parallel relationship instead? Sparing an hour from time to time to have some alternative "relationships" may be a way to go. Everybody is happy.

What if each relationship last one year? Two year? Ten years? Some families keep a dog before the babies. Then the dog grow up with the babies. Then when there's not enough room and too much trouble when the babies grow up, the dog is given up for adoption for given to someone who's not fit to take care of it. There should be something of a life time achievement award that you cannot take away.

Men like massage. Women like day spas, massage included. It's not uncommon for women to ask for pussy rubs given the right circumstances. To me it's just a treat. Can you separate pleasure of the flesh from sexual pleasures? A foot massage always turn me on. I would guess in tantra everything is sexual.

The GFE challenge

Did we just clicked? Was it all an act? Or somewhere in between? The question is, do you want to find out?

Some girls give you a passionate lingering kiss at the beginning, and that's it. Because it's expected from them. It's on their reviews. When my lips are moving onto theirs, some girls will hesitate a moment, then do what they say they would do, and that's it.

Some girls will naturally react in kind. If you move your head towards them, they will move forward without hesitation and meet your lips midway. Often it's kisses of the most usual kind, no water tight lips, no deep sucking, just enough suction to lock together. It was a kind of GFE. Sometimes I leave it at that. I may do a few more at the right moment. It is sweet and I don't want to go any further. I also don't want to know if she will reject my DFK. Most likely, I will be already thinking of coming back. So I can find out if she will pass the ultimate challenge.

Other times, I'm rather progressive. Once upon a time, I called up an classic agency specialized in part-timers. I set my standard very high as I have plenty of options and good agencies go call. The night is still young. I think both of us are a bit shocked at my hotel room door. She was in a standard issue black coat, wrapped tightly from neck to ankles. But I was so pleased by her face that I was stunned and didn't ask her to come in for a few seconds. I just rushed out from the bath to open the door. Being wet, my hair looked like freshly cut from Tony and Guys. (My hair wouldn't look like that otherwise.) I was in a brilliant white hotel bathrobe standing tall at the door. Erotic Neutrogena bodywash fragrance filled the air.

Being a classic agency, I talked to her on the phone. I asked if she liked kissing. She hesitated and didn't reply directly. I didn't mind the your mileage may vary thing so I booked her. After a drink and some conversations on the sofa, my lips moved in. She was laying at a 45 degree angle on the sofa and didn't move. Before my lips touched hers, she stared at me seriously, making a request, "no tongue", she said. It was supposed to be a warning, but she's not intimidating at all. She was quite cute in saying that, though she put up a serious face for a moment. I gave her an assuring smile and moved on. It wasn't bad, as she didn't have suppressed allergic reactions like some girls.

After soaped her up with Neutrogena, rinsed her and dried her thoroughly, I began to kiss her body. My regret is that I wasn't into licking and toe sucking at that point. But after each body part that I kissed, I would be going back to her lips again. Each lip kiss was more lingering than the last. So it was a long process. I knew she was very relaxed, and she didn't mind kissing me at all, unlimited access. She also showed off her kissing skills, totally responsive. Unlike some girls, it's like they are saying "you can kiss me DFK me however you want, if you want tongue I give you tongue, I'm eager to please, but I'm not enjoying it".

I didn't think I ever finished kissing her body much. Most of the time I was kissing her. Whenever I left her lips, it was when I felt the kiss was too long. I had to find something else to do. But soon, like an addict, I would move back to her lips again. I wasn't bored. And if I felt at any moment she had enough of it, I could not have carried on.

While I was least expected, she brought our short "relationship" to a new level. She brought out the climax. I felt on my lips the top of her tongue teasing me. While still locked with her lips, I opened my eyes in disbelieve. Her tongue was moving in too. It wasn't just passionate DFK like vacuum cleaners. There was a lingering tough tongue fight in slow motion.

I didn't remember the sex or if there's much of it. I remembered I never left her lips out of range. Most likely I was kissing her when I cum slowly in her vagina, totally distracted from what was happening down there.

You can act, but can you keep it up?

Handle and references

Many girls don't like to talk about their reviews even though they occasionally drop a post or two to announce their presence. So I don't normally tell them I'm so and so from which board.

But handles plus private messages are increasingly used as references. Handles show your review and posting history, and booking via PM verifies your handle. This is hardly new. But sites like TER actually don't encourage anybody to discuss the reviews, or to discuss anything else for that matter. It's too much work to earn the privilege of posting immediately without moderating, unless you want to build up your reputation and tell every girl that you are so and so from TER. As Nia says, these guys are usually trouble.

But more and more girls are willing to appear on review and discussion boards, and response to PM's. The ads in my area of CityVibe are mostly fakes or rip-offs. If they are real they risk LE knocking at their door sooner or later. For the rest, they "only see gentlemen over 40". After decoding that means you have to be old enough to find them attractive. On a Friday late night, 90% of the Craiglist ads in my area are ripoffs. If you are brave to appear on discussion boards without moderation, you can find many guys to vouch for you.

Now so many girls are traveling like playing musical chair, staying in one place for a day or two makes advertising expensive. Some sites like Eros allow you to move your ad to different cities without extra charge I think, but calling them is a hassle and I think they have trouble keeping up. Craiglist and some other discussion boards are particularly suitable for these girls. Here, many girls are asking for $200 per half hour, which makes them very respectable.

As I have posted, some traveling girls ask for 3 references in my area to feel safe from LE. So using discussion boards to verify each other is more convenient and quick.

However, do I want to review my handle? It's different from escort reviews. I don't think girls are interested in the size of my belly. In revealing your handle, who you see and when you see them become linked to you as a real person with real face, a telephone number and perhaps a real name. You knows, sometimes some girls slip, though rare. "Ah, I know this guy [handle] also works for [company] on [department]". Maybe that is a 4 person company with 3 departments.

Once I review my handles, I doubt if my reviews can still be objective. The agenda becomes being a nice guy. Also from the reviews, girls may have a distorted impression. If you have few reviews, you are newbie and you are trouble, expecting too much. Or you are poor. On the other hand, too many reviews means harder to satisfy, a high health risk?

What I really want to talk about are the reference services. For escorts there's the Date Check and another similar one. You pay a yearly fee. They maintain a database of who had seen who. For newbies, you can ask them to call your company to verify your employment for $10. Recently TER launched the white list service, which is essentially Date Check without the labor intensive verifying option. It's free but you have to be a TER member, meaning expensive.

I am not sure which are more important in screening:
1) avoid LE
2) make sure he can afford to pay
3) personal safety, if something happen to me, this is the person to look for
4) if he makes troubles, this is the company to call

I don't see what employment verification achieves. Yes, for big corporations, you don't even need to call. Everyone can supply an authorization code for you to call an employment verification service, you can verify their real name and how long they have been working. I don't know how possible is it for LE to ask a local big company to add a name to their employee list. But setting up a empty shell company is easy.

Then there's the safe dating services. You leave the details of the person you are going to see on the website. If you meet a serial killer and your name appears on the news, somebody know where to look for that killer's details.

I think paypal can become useful. If you use that to pay for a reference service, you get verified to some extend without reviewing any of your details. The recipient knows if your account is verified - that you have a valid bank account and you are the owner. Also it's hard for a person to have many paypal accounts. They don't allow a bank account to use on different paypal accounts. They also check more harshly than before the money laundering laws came into effect. I still have a few experimental accounts before that era.

BTW, anybody tried to pay by phone using paypal? I had been thinking about getting Chanel an online reloadable debit card. So I can send her the money before and gifts after. But all of them need real ID's that Chanel wouldn't approve. Paypal is different. She doesn't like to turn on her computer but she likes her phone. Cash is too much trouble. I only like cash at the time when I walk into the bank to deposit a large company check and take out a grand or two for play money in 100 bills.

I'm thinking about these because I'm looking for a Chanel replacement. I may need references; I can't get around it all the time. Before she fired me, I've been looking hard for her replacement. Because I wanted to free from her spell ASAP. One day she is an angel and the next she may be a bitch. Sometimes I found somebody good enough to replace her, but Chanel would call me up and then all would be forgiven and forgotten. Now I have no choice but to look. But strangely I wasn't in a rush.