Yesterday my cell phone froze. It took some abuse but nowadays they can't break that easy. It dawned on me that it was the sim card inside - the two-in-one sim card. I cut the extra bit of two standard sim cards and put them into the tiny holding space in the 2-in-1. That's how I hide a secret line in my phone. Even though I hardly need this secret number, I never attempt to do anything about it because I know it will be trouble. I know because I cut the sim cards. It's a pretty bad job. I also avoid any reason to touch that sim.
Actually the secret line never had any great value to it. I gave my phone number to Chanel long ago before I had any secret number to give it out to. I never gave her any other numbers because I actually like to know when she called and to consider responding. The secret number is normally in answer phone mode. And she's pretty easy to deal with, cause she seems to have more to lose than me.
I met her at the time when she first set herself up in the classic way - a Beverly hills area code (that doesn't mean anything), a Cityvibe advertisement, and even a video to go with it, because she was photogenic. She didn't make it. She couldn't hold good clients like me, even thought she wanted to, and I liked her and gave her chances. All she attracted was trouble and maybe stalkers.
I ran into her again when my agent called me to introduce me to a new girl that he had. Now she wasn't after big money. She worked part time just to get pocket money. Indeed she only worked once a week, and not even every week. The agent will arrange enough of his clients to meet her that day, so she can return to her normal life on the other days.
This kind of agent will also do some screening - which type of guys she wouldn't see. All his clients are supposed to be reasonable, not like newbies with impossible expectations and demands. But in fact, sometimes when I response to an ad, the agent basically told me to pretend that I am his regular. But that's not too bad, because only regulars know where to find the obscure ads.
It's relative easy job for her because she didn't need to provide much service. But she didn't get much money either.
I was happy to see her, but she wasn't. She tried to be emotionless. Perhaps it's a bit of humiliation being found like that - instead of, say, in a Beverly Hills hotel. Perhaps she's just sad because I will never pay her what I paid her before.
At the time I barely know how things work. So I called her Beverly Hills number, but it was no more. I tried my agent and there seemed to be trouble tracking her down. I think she ducked out of it. Of course she freelance the other days when she didn't go to "work". Of course she cherry picked her own clients, like she said, a few is enough, considering that she lived with her mother, and that she could already have her rich boy friend and super gold card at the time.
I am not sure why she avoided me. Maybe it's some sort of blackmail. You can't see me for that price, and for that price I don't need you, anybody will do. Maybe she wanted to avoid any possibility of humiliation. She's not going to compromise her pride, for that price. Maybe she didn't want me to feel pity or sorry for her.
Whenever I "visit" my agent, that's every week, I would ask for her, but that's not necessary, I'll settle for any good ones. Soon she came to her senses, or may be our agent put enough pressure on her. Again she tried to be as routine as possible, no smiles. You ask for it and you get it, her way. Whenever I asked her to change position she hesitated, to the point of point blank refusal, but cooperated anyway. The maximum position was two. I knew she treated me a little differently. Because from the intelligence community she behaved rather good, at least with smiles, when she wanted to seduce new regulars.
I gave her a big tip, and that she was worth that much to me, without doing much. I asked her number and she gave it to me, still no smiles nor any emotions. That was a real number, actually her only number, for family, friends and may be a few clients. She didn't setup a work number, and there's too much trouble to handle two lines simultaneously.
I called her later but found out that her freelance price is a lot different. I'm welcomed to see her on her working day for incalls. For outcalls on any other day is going to cost me more. So I put her on the special occasion category. I don't enjoy she doing her routine at work. If I wanted to have her all for myself, I can call her any time, when I am willing to pay the extra. Once I asked her to come to my house, when I had the house all to myself. She was happy that I though of her first, but tried to make a killing. It didn't work out mostly because her timing and sense of direction didn't impress me. I had better anyway. There was no hard feelings.
So she also had my only number. I wasn't setup to have a secret number.
At the end I saw her regularly. She had other things going, even a rich boy friend, but she just can't refuse the extra pocket money, whether she needed it or not. She kept a few clients and made sure that they saw her at least monthly. Going out for an "early lunch" or going for a "long lunch" was no big deal for her. Not even being sucked like a vacuum cleaner, because she didn't need to do anything with someone she found repulsive. Now try to eliminate that demand and supply.
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Saturday, January 01, 2011
My wish list
Talking about wish list, here is my quick list.
Hair salon gift card for her. Chanel has high volume long hair, good looking wet or dry. But one day I saw her in a volume-less style (a long story) and I wished to see her in that again. You got to have a website for clueless men to pick something in their price range. You can upload photos and mock up a suggested hair style on the card.
On the other end, nail salon gift card for her. Same as above but this time a mandatory style and service. Some nails are just too fancy - may lead to food poisoning.
Organic, food grade body moisturizer lotion. Selected flavor like tuna. Again not for me, unless someone wants it.
Dynamic wish list, as in schools, you put what you need most on top. It can be expensive items and accept pledges like fund raising, or accept gift cards. It can be simple items that you need to stock up in your fantasy wardrobe. It can be your next beauty salon trip. Bleaching or even cosmetic jobs, endless potential but impractical without enough fans.
Good as cash telephone payments. A guy walks into a bank and take out one grand cash. I always can't think of anything else you can use that for. And you have to spend the money quick or hide it safely before anybody find out at home.
Mail drop off point for gifts. Some gifts need to be exact, and there's the expectation of opening something unknown. But buy it online, get it delivered, carrying it to the rendezvous point, and carry it home - just too much hassle and impractical. It's nice if there's a proxy delivery address for the gift recipient instead of my own mailbox.
Disposable fashion line, eatable better.
I know cash tips is good, frequent visit is better. But practically, if you want to spend something less than $20, or something between $20 and $40, etc, gifts can fill the gaps. The cheapest gift on the list will always be appreciated. The more expensive gifts will not be wasted if it's on the list.
Hair salon gift card for her. Chanel has high volume long hair, good looking wet or dry. But one day I saw her in a volume-less style (a long story) and I wished to see her in that again. You got to have a website for clueless men to pick something in their price range. You can upload photos and mock up a suggested hair style on the card.
On the other end, nail salon gift card for her. Same as above but this time a mandatory style and service. Some nails are just too fancy - may lead to food poisoning.
Organic, food grade body moisturizer lotion. Selected flavor like tuna. Again not for me, unless someone wants it.
Dynamic wish list, as in schools, you put what you need most on top. It can be expensive items and accept pledges like fund raising, or accept gift cards. It can be simple items that you need to stock up in your fantasy wardrobe. It can be your next beauty salon trip. Bleaching or even cosmetic jobs, endless potential but impractical without enough fans.
Good as cash telephone payments. A guy walks into a bank and take out one grand cash. I always can't think of anything else you can use that for. And you have to spend the money quick or hide it safely before anybody find out at home.
Mail drop off point for gifts. Some gifts need to be exact, and there's the expectation of opening something unknown. But buy it online, get it delivered, carrying it to the rendezvous point, and carry it home - just too much hassle and impractical. It's nice if there's a proxy delivery address for the gift recipient instead of my own mailbox.
Disposable fashion line, eatable better.
I know cash tips is good, frequent visit is better. But practically, if you want to spend something less than $20, or something between $20 and $40, etc, gifts can fill the gaps. The cheapest gift on the list will always be appreciated. The more expensive gifts will not be wasted if it's on the list.
Friday, December 24, 2010
The brothel
I always wanted to open a brothel, a virtual one that I don't need to do much in order to own a brothel. After it rained seven days and seven nights, I did it out of boredom.
It's called Escorts 360, because it existed now on Facebook as a serious of pages beginning with that name. You can type that in the search box and they may turn up. Because it's a collection of "pages", so it can also be called a magazine.
Basically the magazine is the extension of what you see on my blog, the falling panels and all that. Each page is a combination of feeds with different themes. Basically the magazine is a direct reflection of what I read in my Google reader. I always wanted to share it and read it myself in a more interesting way. I always wanted to mock up a magazine like the wall paper on Facebook (try the tab), but I can't do that without leaving identity traces to find hosting or register my mobile number. Facebook pages are far from what I wanted but it's painless and effortless. You can pick the pages you like without putting up with the others.
All contents are automatically generated, except for the Editor's pick. The Facebook term of use isn't too bad, banning only porn, but not necessarily nudity. That's one way to op out without disabling your feed. Also, escorts are universally legal, hence avoiding the arbitrarily enforced policies of Facebook.
My complete blog feed appears under the name Thomas Playor.
It's called Escorts 360, because it existed now on Facebook as a serious of pages beginning with that name. You can type that in the search box and they may turn up. Because it's a collection of "pages", so it can also be called a magazine.
Basically the magazine is the extension of what you see on my blog, the falling panels and all that. Each page is a combination of feeds with different themes. Basically the magazine is a direct reflection of what I read in my Google reader. I always wanted to share it and read it myself in a more interesting way. I always wanted to mock up a magazine like the wall paper on Facebook (try the tab), but I can't do that without leaving identity traces to find hosting or register my mobile number. Facebook pages are far from what I wanted but it's painless and effortless. You can pick the pages you like without putting up with the others.
All contents are automatically generated, except for the Editor's pick. The Facebook term of use isn't too bad, banning only porn, but not necessarily nudity. That's one way to op out without disabling your feed. Also, escorts are universally legal, hence avoiding the arbitrarily enforced policies of Facebook.
My complete blog feed appears under the name Thomas Playor.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
The anti-model - My Holiday present to some of you
Friday, December 17, 2010
Sunday, December 12, 2010
The Client 9 Conspiracy
The rape charges against Julian Assange has been reported and analyzed in some detail by Reuters. I didn't read it first because I didn't search for it, knowing that it dubious and doesn't really matter to Wikileaks itself. Now that I have read it, I really think it will affect tourism somewhat, a tiny bit? I have seen at least one rape counselor made comments defending Julian.
The reason I mentioned Glenn Beck's defense of Assange because Beck hated him. Beck brought up some interesting conspiracy theory regarding several sex scandals. Eliot Spitzer went after AIG and subprime lending. He was blocked by the banks' lobbying. Then the prostitution scandal broke out.
How he was exposed I did not research. But honestly, all of America is using basically a don't ask don't tell policy. If nobody complains, LE do not normally go after prostitutes and clients. If nobody make waves, LE would not have gone after Craig's List. Exceptions are, eg, election times when LE actively pick some visible targets and do some clean up.
Conspiracy cannot be proved at present time, otherwise it is not conspiracy. But Spitzer did go after the banks, and he did lost his job because of prostitutes.
For the implications look at Iceland, which is bankrupted by the banks, because the regulators are in bed with the bankers. Iceland is so friendly with Wikileaks that their parliament summon the local head of Visa asking why they dropped Wikileaks, and probably go after the credit companies in some way.
So if prostitution is legal, we might just have avoided a global financial crisis. And if prostitution is going to be legal, we will not go all the way like Iceland, until everybody can see what's wrong with illegal prostitution, even Melissa Farley.
Spitzer may not be that hypocritical. I enjoy commercial sex from time to time but I do not recommend anyone to do sex work. The odds are not that great and I didn't write too much about the obvious. Like many clients and escorts, Spitzer may not see his high price hookers as prostitutes, or being a social problem. He probably meant it when he said he would crack down on prostitution, but his hookers do not count.
The new (few days old) Wikileaks documentary.
Now will you work for pencils? Not sex work related. You can donate pencils to low income families without paying for it. Click on the upper left corner. It only takes a short time, and somewhat interesting too if you like new things.
The reason I mentioned Glenn Beck's defense of Assange because Beck hated him. Beck brought up some interesting conspiracy theory regarding several sex scandals. Eliot Spitzer went after AIG and subprime lending. He was blocked by the banks' lobbying. Then the prostitution scandal broke out.
How he was exposed I did not research. But honestly, all of America is using basically a don't ask don't tell policy. If nobody complains, LE do not normally go after prostitutes and clients. If nobody make waves, LE would not have gone after Craig's List. Exceptions are, eg, election times when LE actively pick some visible targets and do some clean up.
Conspiracy cannot be proved at present time, otherwise it is not conspiracy. But Spitzer did go after the banks, and he did lost his job because of prostitutes.
For the implications look at Iceland, which is bankrupted by the banks, because the regulators are in bed with the bankers. Iceland is so friendly with Wikileaks that their parliament summon the local head of Visa asking why they dropped Wikileaks, and probably go after the credit companies in some way.
So if prostitution is legal, we might just have avoided a global financial crisis. And if prostitution is going to be legal, we will not go all the way like Iceland, until everybody can see what's wrong with illegal prostitution, even Melissa Farley.
Spitzer may not be that hypocritical. I enjoy commercial sex from time to time but I do not recommend anyone to do sex work. The odds are not that great and I didn't write too much about the obvious. Like many clients and escorts, Spitzer may not see his high price hookers as prostitutes, or being a social problem. He probably meant it when he said he would crack down on prostitution, but his hookers do not count.
The new (few days old) Wikileaks documentary.
Now will you work for pencils? Not sex work related. You can donate pencils to low income families without paying for it. Click on the upper left corner. It only takes a short time, and somewhat interesting too if you like new things.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Anti human trafficking hypocrite - US State Department
From the Wikileaks obtained diplomatic cables (released and screened via 3rd party I suppose), we know that US security contractor DynCorp involved in child prostitution. The fact is, Afghanistan nationals were prosecuted. The cable called for the US state department to cover it up to protect the reputation of DynCorp, whose involvement in child prostitution became "the help of procurement of little boys for a tribal dance". So the trafficking before that, the abuse and rape after that were all blamed on Afghans?
Ironically, the US State Department confirmed all these and more at, of all the places, the State Department trafficking 2010 report for countries. Afghanistan got a grade of tier 2 watch list. One of the traffickers in Afgan, as the United States State Department wrote "foreign security contractors".
Who paid for these foreign security contractors like DynCorp? People like the Embrey Family, Helen Hunt, Melissa Farley, and all the other US citizens.
US should get a tier 4 - fail - for not doing anything whatsoever. And this is a repeated offense.
From the documentary by Frontline, people campaigning against the practice in Afgan got stone walled. Nobody wanted to talk about it.
There are many supporters of Wikileaks, prominent people, journalists, academics, whatever. If you want to donate sure you can search for it. The simple way is to sign a petition - this one is pretty good, over 400,000 in a day or so.
Attacking the attacker is a classic move when you are desperate. Julian Assange is not Wikileaks and we don't need to go into that. But the case is intriguing. He got a unlikely defender - Glenn Beck!. Even if he didn't present so many publicly known facts, he deserves your confidence for defending what he claimed a "dirt bag".
Talking about the Swedish model (of prostitution legislation), there's another Swedish model regarding rape. Woman number one held a party in honor of Julian the date after she was "raped" and introduced him to woman number two. If you watch what Glenn said, I doubt if you even want to be a tourist there.
Ironically, the US State Department confirmed all these and more at, of all the places, the State Department trafficking 2010 report for countries. Afghanistan got a grade of tier 2 watch list. One of the traffickers in Afgan, as the United States State Department wrote "foreign security contractors".
Who paid for these foreign security contractors like DynCorp? People like the Embrey Family, Helen Hunt, Melissa Farley, and all the other US citizens.
US should get a tier 4 - fail - for not doing anything whatsoever. And this is a repeated offense.
Back in Bosnia in 1999, US policewoman Kathryn Bolkovac was fired from DynCorp after blowing the whistle on a sex-slave ring operating on one of our bases there. DynCorp's employees were accused of raping and peddling girls as young as 12 from countries like Ukraine, Moldova and Romania. The company was forced to settle lawsuits against Bolkovac (whose story was recently told in the feature film The Whistleblower) and another man who informed authorities about DynCorp's sex ring.Again the US did nothing. It's a civil suit. Was there an investigation? Anybody at DynCorp convicted?
From the documentary by Frontline, people campaigning against the practice in Afgan got stone walled. Nobody wanted to talk about it.
There are many supporters of Wikileaks, prominent people, journalists, academics, whatever. If you want to donate sure you can search for it. The simple way is to sign a petition - this one is pretty good, over 400,000 in a day or so.
Attacking the attacker is a classic move when you are desperate. Julian Assange is not Wikileaks and we don't need to go into that. But the case is intriguing. He got a unlikely defender - Glenn Beck!. Even if he didn't present so many publicly known facts, he deserves your confidence for defending what he claimed a "dirt bag".
Talking about the Swedish model (of prostitution legislation), there's another Swedish model regarding rape. Woman number one held a party in honor of Julian the date after she was "raped" and introduced him to woman number two. If you watch what Glenn said, I doubt if you even want to be a tourist there.
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Texas company "helped pimp little boys to stoned Afghan cops"
In the Houston Press, an extensive blog post untangling an alarming story from the state department cables: "another horrific taxpayer-funded sex scandal for DynCorp, the private security contractor tasked with training the Afghan police," and apparent proof that the company procured male children for bacha bazi ("boy-play") parties.
The story boils down to this: this company, headquartered in DC with Texas offices, helped pimp out little boys as sex slaves to stoned cops in Afghanistan.
The story boils down to this: this company, headquartered in DC with Texas offices, helped pimp out little boys as sex slaves to stoned cops in Afghanistan.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
How to remove anal hair
I didn't know I have anal hair until I started trimming my balls. I shaved lower and lower, between and behind my legs and the hairs were still there. I could use a mirror and shave it clean but I DO NOT want to look at my ass. And unless you use laser, the hair will keep coming back, meaning that I have to look at my ass in the mirror from time to time.
I only remember one semi-pro girl who have some hair around her asshole. You can only see the hairs if you do a close up, but because of it she wouldn't want me to go near her ass. Is it rare or all girls remove their anal hairs using laser?
I stumbled upon a battery operated trimmer. They didn't say what it's for but one attachment is for nose hair. If you ramp it into your noise and it doesn't hurt, you can use it for your ass. Anyway, all the attachments are tiny and you can touch and move across your skin without hurting.
The funny thing is, if you put the cap on, it's like a pocket rocket. So I have extra entertainment while shaving. Just don't insert into anything.
Why remove anal hair? Sometimes I got lucky. When I'm familiar with someone, one day I would remember to check their asses. If they are irresistible I'll rim them. Sometimes they will return the favor as a present surprise. I don't want anything to get in the way. I don't usually look for that as a service menu item. It will be a bit mechanical and will you GFE her?
The reason I stumbled upon a trimmer is because I gave everybody a hundred dollar hair cut. Typically people see their hairdresser monthly, for half an hour depending on the amount of work. It's me who's doing the cutting so it's not like $10 an hour labor. I finish each cut up to a few days, lasting from a few minutes to an hour. So the total labor will be expensive.
The reason I gave everybody hair cuts is because I figured out, or learned how to cut my own hair with style. I hate to go to salons or barbers since I was little. The result? Castle cross ex-seal for myself. Beckett cross porn star for my kids.
During the long holidays, my kids have nothing much to do and asked to ride the transformer (convertible). I have to brag about it - we are in the Northern Hemisphere but we let the top down (transformed) in winter, at speed, sometimes illegal. Another thing is the gas price - it's still nothing compared to Europe and Asia. It's indeed a cheap thrill. With all the expensive hairs flowing in the wind we were a sensation when we stopped at the gas station.
For the family dinner something unusual happened. Free Cartier watches are no more, not even free watches. I got a free turkey that is hard to refuse. I also got some wedding surplus as a thank you gift. It's a pretty good bottle of wine so it stayed at the table - but we have to put up with the bride and groom's picture on the bottle. These were something extra to be thank you for I suppose.
Not that I like to watch Castle much. I'm not even motivated to watch Chuck. But surprisingly it brought back nostalgia - guys from Quantum Leap, James Bond, Terminator, are all there. It's good to turn into vintage sometimes - many of you aren't old enough to know what I'm talking about. On top of that, do you know what Sara has to do to keep my attention? Victoria's secret model, massage as in a massage parlor, dress like Laura Croft, fight like Bruce Lee. I can recognize a few classic fight moves that I done know where it comes from. But she played a scene that is straight from Apocalypse Now.
You know you are coming of age when you are overloaded with classic TV and movie flashbacks. The intersect is burning out ...
I only remember one semi-pro girl who have some hair around her asshole. You can only see the hairs if you do a close up, but because of it she wouldn't want me to go near her ass. Is it rare or all girls remove their anal hairs using laser?
I stumbled upon a battery operated trimmer. They didn't say what it's for but one attachment is for nose hair. If you ramp it into your noise and it doesn't hurt, you can use it for your ass. Anyway, all the attachments are tiny and you can touch and move across your skin without hurting.
The funny thing is, if you put the cap on, it's like a pocket rocket. So I have extra entertainment while shaving. Just don't insert into anything.
Why remove anal hair? Sometimes I got lucky. When I'm familiar with someone, one day I would remember to check their asses. If they are irresistible I'll rim them. Sometimes they will return the favor as a present surprise. I don't want anything to get in the way. I don't usually look for that as a service menu item. It will be a bit mechanical and will you GFE her?
The reason I stumbled upon a trimmer is because I gave everybody a hundred dollar hair cut. Typically people see their hairdresser monthly, for half an hour depending on the amount of work. It's me who's doing the cutting so it's not like $10 an hour labor. I finish each cut up to a few days, lasting from a few minutes to an hour. So the total labor will be expensive.
The reason I gave everybody hair cuts is because I figured out, or learned how to cut my own hair with style. I hate to go to salons or barbers since I was little. The result? Castle cross ex-seal for myself. Beckett cross porn star for my kids.
During the long holidays, my kids have nothing much to do and asked to ride the transformer (convertible). I have to brag about it - we are in the Northern Hemisphere but we let the top down (transformed) in winter, at speed, sometimes illegal. Another thing is the gas price - it's still nothing compared to Europe and Asia. It's indeed a cheap thrill. With all the expensive hairs flowing in the wind we were a sensation when we stopped at the gas station.
For the family dinner something unusual happened. Free Cartier watches are no more, not even free watches. I got a free turkey that is hard to refuse. I also got some wedding surplus as a thank you gift. It's a pretty good bottle of wine so it stayed at the table - but we have to put up with the bride and groom's picture on the bottle. These were something extra to be thank you for I suppose.
Not that I like to watch Castle much. I'm not even motivated to watch Chuck. But surprisingly it brought back nostalgia - guys from Quantum Leap, James Bond, Terminator, are all there. It's good to turn into vintage sometimes - many of you aren't old enough to know what I'm talking about. On top of that, do you know what Sara has to do to keep my attention? Victoria's secret model, massage as in a massage parlor, dress like Laura Croft, fight like Bruce Lee. I can recognize a few classic fight moves that I done know where it comes from. But she played a scene that is straight from Apocalypse Now.
You know you are coming of age when you are overloaded with classic TV and movie flashbacks. The intersect is burning out ...
Monday, November 22, 2010
Buying and selling sex online
I still have many hits on this topic. And I can do better than this.
To look at where escorts advertise and where clients read, go to theeroticreview.com. Disclaimer: I don't endorse it and didn't ask you to read the reviews. But it gives you good statistics of where the advertisements are, and obviously these advertisements are answered. It's big enough that small and large cities are covered, all the way up to Shanghai!
You will find that for national coverage (and international as well), cityvibe seems to be most popular. Eros follows. Of course in some cities and regions the order is reversed. Cityvibe has more fancy stuff and adapted more to visiting escorts. But cityvibe has two sections, one for the traditional advertising and here we are not talking about the one for classified that is a copy of craigslist.
In your home base, or if you are a visitor with time in your hands, get to know your local scene. Eg, myredbook is advertising, classified, review/discussion board, and massage parlors all in one in San Francisco. With this model it never went too far out of SF with any scale.
There are sites that look like a combination of agencies or listings or advertising. If they are popular and appear in the local boards, they don't need to advertise anywhere else.
There are local versions of TER with more detailed reviews, and more drama.
Every site has it's characteristics. If the escorts look right for you and if the price is right, you can sell sex there or buy sex there.
For the classified the Craigslist replacement is Backpages and Cityvibe classified. I think CV is free unless you go featured, while BP starts at $5. It's true that your advertising budget reflects your fees, but your quality doesn't. You got ripoff anyway if you have no idea. Many escorts advertise in traditional malls and classified. Some charge two different prices but some are consistent. The problem with traditional malls is that for traveling escorts, you have to call them up to move your ad whenever go are on the move.
As for the reviews, if you can make good use of the Amazon reviews, you will be OK. Amazon also has many self reviews, fake reviews, conflicting reviews. The overall rating is not very useful because for example 7 out of 10 people are so dump that they should buy the more expensive version to get the job done.
To look at where escorts advertise and where clients read, go to theeroticreview.com. Disclaimer: I don't endorse it and didn't ask you to read the reviews. But it gives you good statistics of where the advertisements are, and obviously these advertisements are answered. It's big enough that small and large cities are covered, all the way up to Shanghai!
You will find that for national coverage (and international as well), cityvibe seems to be most popular. Eros follows. Of course in some cities and regions the order is reversed. Cityvibe has more fancy stuff and adapted more to visiting escorts. But cityvibe has two sections, one for the traditional advertising and here we are not talking about the one for classified that is a copy of craigslist.
In your home base, or if you are a visitor with time in your hands, get to know your local scene. Eg, myredbook is advertising, classified, review/discussion board, and massage parlors all in one in San Francisco. With this model it never went too far out of SF with any scale.
There are sites that look like a combination of agencies or listings or advertising. If they are popular and appear in the local boards, they don't need to advertise anywhere else.
There are local versions of TER with more detailed reviews, and more drama.
Every site has it's characteristics. If the escorts look right for you and if the price is right, you can sell sex there or buy sex there.
For the classified the Craigslist replacement is Backpages and Cityvibe classified. I think CV is free unless you go featured, while BP starts at $5. It's true that your advertising budget reflects your fees, but your quality doesn't. You got ripoff anyway if you have no idea. Many escorts advertise in traditional malls and classified. Some charge two different prices but some are consistent. The problem with traditional malls is that for traveling escorts, you have to call them up to move your ad whenever go are on the move.
As for the reviews, if you can make good use of the Amazon reviews, you will be OK. Amazon also has many self reviews, fake reviews, conflicting reviews. The overall rating is not very useful because for example 7 out of 10 people are so dump that they should buy the more expensive version to get the job done.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Prostitution for stress relief
I wrote on the subject of prostitution and therapy. It is therapeutic. You can argue that a ball game is just as therapeutic. But civilization is about variety, adding things that do not yet exist, which serve some useful purposes.
Imagine a world without happy ending - and most of the adult population in the English speaking world knows what I mean. At the end of a long massage, you can walk out and do a lot of other things, including patronizing escorts that I sometimes do. But happy is a popular ending. Very therapeutic.
Women who go to day spas will understand. I have been told women also ask for pussy rubs from masseuses.
It's good entertainment, therapeutic, all harmless natural fun, and yet it's illegal. Make a checklist of the top 10 arguments against it and most are controversial at best.
Now let me explain where my stress comes from and why prostitution is a good relief.
An individual can usually cope with stresses on him because otherwise he would have exploded. But some people don't acquire this skill - typically your spouses.
Specifically some people don't think rationally. In the open society these people will normally be crushed into pieces in no time unless they have a sheltered life - including sheltered by their own talents.
Authors observed that some people behave rationally on the outside but they behave irrationally when it comes to relationships. If you treat me nice I can be your Bonnie.
Selective rationality isn't rationality at all. They just use logic when it suits them in winning arguments.
So, some people do not have the mechanism to due with their own stresses. They relay the pressure onto other people, typically spouses. It's not like coping with twice the stress, but it's a downward never ending spiraling. The pressure will be on as long as you can cope.
I don't need to praise the people that do a great service for mankind. They know that.
I need to say that the demand abortionists are nuts. They said something like it's not important for researches to disclose findings that oppose their views. (Quotes from Laura's blog?) I don't know how their spouses cope with the stress.
Imagine a world without happy ending - and most of the adult population in the English speaking world knows what I mean. At the end of a long massage, you can walk out and do a lot of other things, including patronizing escorts that I sometimes do. But happy is a popular ending. Very therapeutic.
Women who go to day spas will understand. I have been told women also ask for pussy rubs from masseuses.
It's good entertainment, therapeutic, all harmless natural fun, and yet it's illegal. Make a checklist of the top 10 arguments against it and most are controversial at best.
Now let me explain where my stress comes from and why prostitution is a good relief.
An individual can usually cope with stresses on him because otherwise he would have exploded. But some people don't acquire this skill - typically your spouses.
Specifically some people don't think rationally. In the open society these people will normally be crushed into pieces in no time unless they have a sheltered life - including sheltered by their own talents.
Authors observed that some people behave rationally on the outside but they behave irrationally when it comes to relationships. If you treat me nice I can be your Bonnie.
Selective rationality isn't rationality at all. They just use logic when it suits them in winning arguments.
So, some people do not have the mechanism to due with their own stresses. They relay the pressure onto other people, typically spouses. It's not like coping with twice the stress, but it's a downward never ending spiraling. The pressure will be on as long as you can cope.
I don't need to praise the people that do a great service for mankind. They know that.
I need to say that the demand abortionists are nuts. They said something like it's not important for researches to disclose findings that oppose their views. (Quotes from Laura's blog?) I don't know how their spouses cope with the stress.
Friday, October 29, 2010
Size matters - it's official (brain related)
Some time ago, I read an article from my blogroll that male brain sizes are a few percentage bigger than females on average. Another reports that many detained in jails have a mental condition, and females are twice as much (in ratio only, I hope). So, do you believe me now what I'm going through?
The article also says that more significantly is how the brains are wired. The female brain is significantly different - which explains that they are better in multi-tasking (and you have no idea how this word is so dreadful to me).
You probably want to browse another website at this point, such as the devil not in disguise anymore. You have been warned.
Man don't ask for directions. They read maps. (Or drive around endlessly with a wrong map in their head.) Previously I agree that some people are better at visual, others verbal. But it is deeper than that. Verbal people are overwhelming female, they just can't say this in corporate training.
Directions make you stupid. Or, you don't gain anything by directions. If you remember everything correctly, if you didn't make a wrong turn, then you may get there. Next time you may remember some visual landmarks. The skills involved are very primitive.
Or may be it's a culture thing. Females will never think of anything else but ask for directions. Once I was driving 19 year old Jordan, looking for a special lingerie store in a mall that I have never been to. I looked at the map briefly before hand. I was doing fine and on course, but of course there were doubts in every turn. Once she saw that, she immediately stop a car at the lights next to her, shout out where she wanted to go, and got the directions.
Map reading needs skills. Even if an explorer has GPS that has his exact location, that's only part of the story. Navigation GPS have pretty small screens, which do not have the whole picture. They are just glorified direction givers. My theory is that - it's equally valid that men's brain is bigger because they exercise them more since childhood. Say, not asking for directions may contribute half a percent, and all the things that men do and women don't adds up.
By map reading, men are building a super map in their brains. Previous destinations are like pieces of jigsaws, with new destinations updated all the time. It's not a simple memory thing as everything is connected - that's how you learn and recall things. For example, if a female driver is going to miss a freeway (motorway) exit, she will come at you at all cost, whether your car was blocking or not. She has no other way to redress the mistake. Directions cannot be translated easily once you are off course, not even in the same intersection but different exit. A male driver will just wait until the next exit. With a sense of direction developed over time, even with very limited information such as the directions relayed from his wife, he can probably find the destination starting from the wrong exit.
Practically, directions are unreliable. Complicated directions are easily forgotten or mis-recalled. When you are off course, everything will not make sense at all. But if you translate the directions into a mental map first, it's much easier to recover and find the alternative route to get there.
On-board GPS is a good thing, and every female should have one. Again, that doesn't make your brain bigger. Better safe than clever.
Women take exactly the same route into and out of a mall, and inside the mall, even though big shopping centers have multiple exits. They use the same route even though the route is very inefficient for the shops they are visiting.
A long time ago I saw on TV that a man (or his wife) brought a wall clock, but never come round to hang it on the wall, even thought it's a one minute job, or two.
For a multi-tasker, this is unforgivable. But for problem solvers, you have my sympathy. I do the same, especially if that's what my wife brought. Tackling one problem at a time, the tasks are all automatically prioritized. If you can's solve the first one, sooner or later you are not getting paid, and any other things will be insignificant by comparison.
Multi-tasking is not a bad thing, but the danger is that it can degenerate into "cooking while chatting on the phone", which will not make your brain larger. You may not devout enough time to crack the most important problem. You have no priority any more. You plans becoming filling up the diary.
Have you noticed that in multi-party porn, females always multi-task, while males will do the females one at a time? Is that a reflection of the reality? Is that pure physical or brain related? I do find doubles distracting. Or, since porns are mostly watched by males, can men not concentrate on more than one woman at a time?
The article also says that more significantly is how the brains are wired. The female brain is significantly different - which explains that they are better in multi-tasking (and you have no idea how this word is so dreadful to me).
You probably want to browse another website at this point, such as the devil not in disguise anymore. You have been warned.
Man don't ask for directions. They read maps. (Or drive around endlessly with a wrong map in their head.) Previously I agree that some people are better at visual, others verbal. But it is deeper than that. Verbal people are overwhelming female, they just can't say this in corporate training.
Directions make you stupid. Or, you don't gain anything by directions. If you remember everything correctly, if you didn't make a wrong turn, then you may get there. Next time you may remember some visual landmarks. The skills involved are very primitive.
Or may be it's a culture thing. Females will never think of anything else but ask for directions. Once I was driving 19 year old Jordan, looking for a special lingerie store in a mall that I have never been to. I looked at the map briefly before hand. I was doing fine and on course, but of course there were doubts in every turn. Once she saw that, she immediately stop a car at the lights next to her, shout out where she wanted to go, and got the directions.
Map reading needs skills. Even if an explorer has GPS that has his exact location, that's only part of the story. Navigation GPS have pretty small screens, which do not have the whole picture. They are just glorified direction givers. My theory is that - it's equally valid that men's brain is bigger because they exercise them more since childhood. Say, not asking for directions may contribute half a percent, and all the things that men do and women don't adds up.
By map reading, men are building a super map in their brains. Previous destinations are like pieces of jigsaws, with new destinations updated all the time. It's not a simple memory thing as everything is connected - that's how you learn and recall things. For example, if a female driver is going to miss a freeway (motorway) exit, she will come at you at all cost, whether your car was blocking or not. She has no other way to redress the mistake. Directions cannot be translated easily once you are off course, not even in the same intersection but different exit. A male driver will just wait until the next exit. With a sense of direction developed over time, even with very limited information such as the directions relayed from his wife, he can probably find the destination starting from the wrong exit.
Practically, directions are unreliable. Complicated directions are easily forgotten or mis-recalled. When you are off course, everything will not make sense at all. But if you translate the directions into a mental map first, it's much easier to recover and find the alternative route to get there.
On-board GPS is a good thing, and every female should have one. Again, that doesn't make your brain bigger. Better safe than clever.
Women take exactly the same route into and out of a mall, and inside the mall, even though big shopping centers have multiple exits. They use the same route even though the route is very inefficient for the shops they are visiting.
A long time ago I saw on TV that a man (or his wife) brought a wall clock, but never come round to hang it on the wall, even thought it's a one minute job, or two.
For a multi-tasker, this is unforgivable. But for problem solvers, you have my sympathy. I do the same, especially if that's what my wife brought. Tackling one problem at a time, the tasks are all automatically prioritized. If you can's solve the first one, sooner or later you are not getting paid, and any other things will be insignificant by comparison.
Multi-tasking is not a bad thing, but the danger is that it can degenerate into "cooking while chatting on the phone", which will not make your brain larger. You may not devout enough time to crack the most important problem. You have no priority any more. You plans becoming filling up the diary.
Have you noticed that in multi-party porn, females always multi-task, while males will do the females one at a time? Is that a reflection of the reality? Is that pure physical or brain related? I do find doubles distracting. Or, since porns are mostly watched by males, can men not concentrate on more than one woman at a time?
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Spies and Cops and Wars
Have you noticed that on TV there are mostly spies, cops and more spies, more cops? (and lawyers) But the Intersect is obsolete. You can be a spy and join a war any time you want, for real.
Seconds ago Wikileaks is under attack. They say it's time to download the encrypted file Wikileaks Insurance. It's less than 2G. The most painless way is to install uTorrent. The torrent download is about 15 min because of the worldwide seeds available.
Whether you are a patriot, don't like the US govt, or just don't like US, your time have come to do something about it. It's your decision. If Wikileaks goes down, certainly the password will surface.
The US govt has been hunting down the Founder. Days ago it cut off donations by threatening the payment processor. Now it goes after the internet. The last WikeLeaks twit:
Nikita looked great, but just for a little while. She is too bone dry and skinny. They even avoid any full body length shots. Any fighting scenes and sexy scenes are very unconvincing.
I used to like the girl on Rookie's Blue. I even watched a few. But now I can't stand it. In contrast, the Texas Blond tough cop is rather funny, even though she doesn't mean to be. Totally unbelievable character and bad acting (it's hard given the script I know).
Seconds ago Wikileaks is under attack. They say it's time to download the encrypted file Wikileaks Insurance. It's less than 2G. The most painless way is to install uTorrent. The torrent download is about 15 min because of the worldwide seeds available.
Whether you are a patriot, don't like the US govt, or just don't like US, your time have come to do something about it. It's your decision. If Wikileaks goes down, certainly the password will surface.
The US govt has been hunting down the Founder. Days ago it cut off donations by threatening the payment processor. Now it goes after the internet. The last WikeLeaks twit:
WikiLeaks communications infrastructure is currently under attack. Project BO move to coms channel S. Activate Reston5.I think Sara (Chuck) did the body sculpture thing in between seasons. She can now do full body close ups with only underwear. She looked a bit fat last season.
Nikita looked great, but just for a little while. She is too bone dry and skinny. They even avoid any full body length shots. Any fighting scenes and sexy scenes are very unconvincing.
I used to like the girl on Rookie's Blue. I even watched a few. But now I can't stand it. In contrast, the Texas Blond tough cop is rather funny, even though she doesn't mean to be. Totally unbelievable character and bad acting (it's hard given the script I know).
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Guilty? Justice!
My tag-line got an honorary mention at Sara's. I didn't remember exactly why I picked the current tag-line, perhaps something to do with Spitzer. But it's an over estimation of me to think that I feel guilty of cheating. Actually I mostly feel that justice is done.
I suppose guilty means illegal. Taking drugs is legal while buying sex is illegal. I'm guilty in that sense. The guilt campaign that Laura blogged about wouldn't work for me.
Do I feel guilty? Sometimes. It's my bank account. But since I'm entitled to half of it only, the guilt is fractional.
Sometimes I feel guilty of promises that I cannot keep, mostly when I was asked to return. Usually I was asked because she knew that I would love to. But it's futile to start something with a two hour round trip in the traffic, or I didn't even live there. Other times, yes is the easy way out.
Sometimes I feel sorry for the girls for some reasons, such as that she must be very screwed up in some ways for me to meet such a nice girl. But that's off topic. Occasionally I feel the guilt of abandoning a friend, even though it may be just a one night stand, or one hour.
I suppose guilty means illegal. Taking drugs is legal while buying sex is illegal. I'm guilty in that sense. The guilt campaign that Laura blogged about wouldn't work for me.
Do I feel guilty? Sometimes. It's my bank account. But since I'm entitled to half of it only, the guilt is fractional.
Sometimes I feel guilty of promises that I cannot keep, mostly when I was asked to return. Usually I was asked because she knew that I would love to. But it's futile to start something with a two hour round trip in the traffic, or I didn't even live there. Other times, yes is the easy way out.
Sometimes I feel sorry for the girls for some reasons, such as that she must be very screwed up in some ways for me to meet such a nice girl. But that's off topic. Occasionally I feel the guilt of abandoning a friend, even though it may be just a one night stand, or one hour.
Thursday, October 07, 2010
Demand Abolition
As reported in this blog, the federal anti-trafficking act failed as in the news. They attempted to add domestic trafficking to save the day. It must had failed too, other than banning Craig's List while all other listings are business as usual. They must had failed because now they started demand abolition, i.e., in order to stop international and domestic trafficking, they are going to remove all demands, another word for abolishing prostitution!
It is back to square one. I don't see when police aren't going after prostitution, which is all illegal, a federal anti-trafficking office can do to eliminate prostitution. When prisoners are to be released because of overcrowding, LE is not going after prostitution in any major way unless complains received.
I don't have the patient to read all the trash. But it was said that porn is a tutorial to prostitution. So probably they are going to go after porn too, together with strip clubs, and maybe fantasy costume and sex toy stores. Another Prohibition is coming. Very recently the MPAA, RIAA are all DDOSed, and so was the firm who boasted that they attacked bit torrent sites. The British law firm which sent thousands of blackmail letters against copyright infringement is going bankrupt because all their emails are leaked, and there's no reason for anybody downloading porn or else to settle. The British Porn Industry said they have nothing to do with that. Good luck. The US secret service, whose job includes tracking down teenage pranksters, hasn't commented on anything.
Indeed porn may be the enemy of prostitution. If not for them it will be trivial to find escorts using google. Now because everyone has whore fantasy, the first 10 pages of search results are all porn.
It's is interesting to follow the money, and see who's behind the new Prohibition. When school classes are huge, and there's not enough money to hold more prisoners, these foundations still find money to support demand abolition ( in parallel to supporting their on going schools of course ). Of course there's the federal funded office created for anti-trafficking. Now they may be going after all prostitutes.
I was wrong that MP's don't use Craig's List. As I have said, US has huge geo diversity. In San Fran they use it to advertise, perhaps due to her tolerance as in LA many years ago. But Red Book has MP reviews long before CL, and now still have them.
It is back to square one. I don't see when police aren't going after prostitution, which is all illegal, a federal anti-trafficking office can do to eliminate prostitution. When prisoners are to be released because of overcrowding, LE is not going after prostitution in any major way unless complains received.
I don't have the patient to read all the trash. But it was said that porn is a tutorial to prostitution. So probably they are going to go after porn too, together with strip clubs, and maybe fantasy costume and sex toy stores. Another Prohibition is coming. Very recently the MPAA, RIAA are all DDOSed, and so was the firm who boasted that they attacked bit torrent sites. The British law firm which sent thousands of blackmail letters against copyright infringement is going bankrupt because all their emails are leaked, and there's no reason for anybody downloading porn or else to settle. The British Porn Industry said they have nothing to do with that. Good luck. The US secret service, whose job includes tracking down teenage pranksters, hasn't commented on anything.
Indeed porn may be the enemy of prostitution. If not for them it will be trivial to find escorts using google. Now because everyone has whore fantasy, the first 10 pages of search results are all porn.
It's is interesting to follow the money, and see who's behind the new Prohibition. When school classes are huge, and there's not enough money to hold more prisoners, these foundations still find money to support demand abolition ( in parallel to supporting their on going schools of course ). Of course there's the federal funded office created for anti-trafficking. Now they may be going after all prostitutes.
I was wrong that MP's don't use Craig's List. As I have said, US has huge geo diversity. In San Fran they use it to advertise, perhaps due to her tolerance as in LA many years ago. But Red Book has MP reviews long before CL, and now still have them.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Trafficking Advertisement?
Before Craig's List closed down adult services, Backpages has a steady stream of revenue, and Cityvibe is doing pretty good for free. The latter is better than CL in many ways. Which makes you doubt about the reason for closing down CL. Soccer moms don't want to sell their stuffs along with escorts?
Racial profiling has many problems. Take Koreans for example. They have hole-in-the-wall drinking places. They build big churches in the most expensive real estates. They drive german cars. They have real LV bags. But the MP girls have the same things. You can't tell if you are clueless, especially visiting other cities.
It's a pretty good deal if they work in US MP's instead of back home. Visa's are pretty easy to come by. Married, have a job, have a bank account. There are a lot of alternatives. You know ageism is pretty serious in the East. But girls at their late 20's or later, are still very much popular at US MP's. That's their working holiday. Boy friend visas are easy too. For college age girls, a student visa is absolutely no problem. And language schools are big business regardless of age.
Compensated dating is quite common in the Far East. Sooner or later they will discover the new silk route. But because of the law here, you need to be quite mature to deal with difficult customers. But once in the semi legal San Francisco, when you walk into a brothel on the main street, it looks like a cheerleader team is waiting for you. Some play the role of cute Japanese porn stars, and play plain exchange students. For the more mature ladies, they have to look good in a bikini, and they wear just that, right by the main road.
They don't need any coercion. On the black market, it was reported that smugglers charge $75,000 to smuggle Chinese to US, and $40,000 to EU. It doesn't make sense to compete with the freelancers.
There are more organized forms of prostitution, but as a rule they don't advertise. My estimation is that they are bigger than CL and all escort malls combined in terms of man-hour, pun intended. But still, they are still remotely related to trafficking.
The karma of anti-trafficking has already appeared. If you lock up prostitutes in far away countries, and interfere with aids-work, who suffers? You are driving them aboard where the money is, when the risk is the same. You look at cityvibe and you will understand. The theory may be wrong, but who can rule it out? Also, when you get to know a guy, ask him for his passport. I doubt if anybody will want you to know where he spent his "tour of the world" in the same few countries. Not using a condom is stupid, but understandable when he thought he got a demure girl friend.
Racial profiling has many problems. Take Koreans for example. They have hole-in-the-wall drinking places. They build big churches in the most expensive real estates. They drive german cars. They have real LV bags. But the MP girls have the same things. You can't tell if you are clueless, especially visiting other cities.
It's a pretty good deal if they work in US MP's instead of back home. Visa's are pretty easy to come by. Married, have a job, have a bank account. There are a lot of alternatives. You know ageism is pretty serious in the East. But girls at their late 20's or later, are still very much popular at US MP's. That's their working holiday. Boy friend visas are easy too. For college age girls, a student visa is absolutely no problem. And language schools are big business regardless of age.
Compensated dating is quite common in the Far East. Sooner or later they will discover the new silk route. But because of the law here, you need to be quite mature to deal with difficult customers. But once in the semi legal San Francisco, when you walk into a brothel on the main street, it looks like a cheerleader team is waiting for you. Some play the role of cute Japanese porn stars, and play plain exchange students. For the more mature ladies, they have to look good in a bikini, and they wear just that, right by the main road.
They don't need any coercion. On the black market, it was reported that smugglers charge $75,000 to smuggle Chinese to US, and $40,000 to EU. It doesn't make sense to compete with the freelancers.
There are more organized forms of prostitution, but as a rule they don't advertise. My estimation is that they are bigger than CL and all escort malls combined in terms of man-hour, pun intended. But still, they are still remotely related to trafficking.
The karma of anti-trafficking has already appeared. If you lock up prostitutes in far away countries, and interfere with aids-work, who suffers? You are driving them aboard where the money is, when the risk is the same. You look at cityvibe and you will understand. The theory may be wrong, but who can rule it out? Also, when you get to know a guy, ask him for his passport. I doubt if anybody will want you to know where he spent his "tour of the world" in the same few countries. Not using a condom is stupid, but understandable when he thought he got a demure girl friend.
Friday, September 24, 2010
The real Craig's List
What's the big deal about Craig's List and trafficking? Many Johns and Janets don't even like it. TER is only forced to accept reviews of girls advertising on CL. In the beginning they don't accept it as a valid form of advertising on the net.
Johns don't like not being able to talk back. Hence the popularity of TER and now the local social networks.
Some hookers view CL as dragging down the price. Some don't even like Internet in the first place. In the beginning those compete on lower rates receive hostile phone calls from competitors.
CL served it's purpose and it's not a bad thing to rest in peace.
The majority of CL ads are continuation of the intra-state organized ripoffs. I have been to some cities where 100% phone book and 100% newspaper classified are ripoffs, organized. If not, there are independent ripoff artists.
Many hookers do not like to advertise on CL if they don't have to. Non-newbies know where to find the local social networks, discussion boards, review boards. CL is trouble in comparison. But of course newbies can be good things too.
You know Disney World tourists took a wrong turn at the airport and got killed. How many John's will dare to go to the most run down of the city? The more practical issue. You have to park your car there. And somebody knows that you will not come back for 30 minutes or more than an hour. My friend went to the Embassy(!) in town and he lost a wheel. Losing the wheel is not the real issue, but why you were there is the issue if you call home for help or call the police.
Here most of the transactions are incalls in hotels, CL or not. It was CL making it easy for traveling girls, now picking up by the local boards, Backpages, and Cityvibe classified. When people see conventional advertising they assume that someone will answer the phone. Without these listings, there will not be these traveling girls and you have to drive a long way for incalls.
Most of these hotel incalls are at hotel clusters, like near the airport. If you pick a hotel out of the ordinary Johns' may doubt. And they may not arrive in time.
The next popular meeting places are the best apartment complexes. You know those guys in TER have so much self importance for $300. At the cluster of most safe cities, next to the most happy place on earth, they say, "oh, there is not safe". These are really the best, with all the security, underground closed parking, and one even cannot access without going through a toll road. It's still a bargain compared to hotels if you have that much business. Some traveling girls keep one in town and take turn to visit and host.
Even for the not so best apartment, the owners will decorate the house themselves or ask others, so it doesn't look like a whore house. In the picture frames you can see stock photos of families! If you walk in, you will feel that it is a private apartment of the girl. Even if she share it with one other, they will avoid letting you see anything. It will be highly unlikely to have helpers.
Massage parlors like to be in clinics in medical plazas. Anyway a nice house/apartment downtown could worth more than one in the suburbs because all the business owners fight for it.
Especially for the parlors in old town, they have fences and CCTVs, perhaps with uniformed guards, or along the main road, to make you feel safer. Nobody want to lose a wheel with their massage.
Even for the amateurs, they will have a decent gated apartment. It's hard to find one without a gate.
So it's pretty impossible to hold someone against their will, or not to give them chances to escape. Most girls will open the door and see you to the door.
I'm sure someone will want to find trafficked girls. But it's pretty ineffective to find it in CL, in many areas. If they have a codeword for it, they do not need CL at all.
The other main thing is what you want when you buy sex. In some cultures it's also called buying smile, as in the Land of Smiles. The common complain of "she just laid there" may be fitting the profile of being trafficked. But many willing and able girls started just like that, that men do not want in general.
There are always men who want to satisfy their darker desires. As far as the investigations go, it's not cheap as in CL. Pimps / agents are fairly protective even for girls who works because they have a lot of money to repay. They do not want their goods damaged or diseased. Dress them nice and put them in a nice apartment and they will do just fine without having to do extra admin work and take extra risk.
There are pimps/agents who advertise and promise you to earn $10,000 in a week, and put you in a large whore house. But that's another investigation. Not on CL anyway.
Johns don't like not being able to talk back. Hence the popularity of TER and now the local social networks.
Some hookers view CL as dragging down the price. Some don't even like Internet in the first place. In the beginning those compete on lower rates receive hostile phone calls from competitors.
CL served it's purpose and it's not a bad thing to rest in peace.
The majority of CL ads are continuation of the intra-state organized ripoffs. I have been to some cities where 100% phone book and 100% newspaper classified are ripoffs, organized. If not, there are independent ripoff artists.
Many hookers do not like to advertise on CL if they don't have to. Non-newbies know where to find the local social networks, discussion boards, review boards. CL is trouble in comparison. But of course newbies can be good things too.
You know Disney World tourists took a wrong turn at the airport and got killed. How many John's will dare to go to the most run down of the city? The more practical issue. You have to park your car there. And somebody knows that you will not come back for 30 minutes or more than an hour. My friend went to the Embassy(!) in town and he lost a wheel. Losing the wheel is not the real issue, but why you were there is the issue if you call home for help or call the police.
Here most of the transactions are incalls in hotels, CL or not. It was CL making it easy for traveling girls, now picking up by the local boards, Backpages, and Cityvibe classified. When people see conventional advertising they assume that someone will answer the phone. Without these listings, there will not be these traveling girls and you have to drive a long way for incalls.
Most of these hotel incalls are at hotel clusters, like near the airport. If you pick a hotel out of the ordinary Johns' may doubt. And they may not arrive in time.
The next popular meeting places are the best apartment complexes. You know those guys in TER have so much self importance for $300. At the cluster of most safe cities, next to the most happy place on earth, they say, "oh, there is not safe". These are really the best, with all the security, underground closed parking, and one even cannot access without going through a toll road. It's still a bargain compared to hotels if you have that much business. Some traveling girls keep one in town and take turn to visit and host.
Even for the not so best apartment, the owners will decorate the house themselves or ask others, so it doesn't look like a whore house. In the picture frames you can see stock photos of families! If you walk in, you will feel that it is a private apartment of the girl. Even if she share it with one other, they will avoid letting you see anything. It will be highly unlikely to have helpers.
Massage parlors like to be in clinics in medical plazas. Anyway a nice house/apartment downtown could worth more than one in the suburbs because all the business owners fight for it.
Especially for the parlors in old town, they have fences and CCTVs, perhaps with uniformed guards, or along the main road, to make you feel safer. Nobody want to lose a wheel with their massage.
Even for the amateurs, they will have a decent gated apartment. It's hard to find one without a gate.
So it's pretty impossible to hold someone against their will, or not to give them chances to escape. Most girls will open the door and see you to the door.
I'm sure someone will want to find trafficked girls. But it's pretty ineffective to find it in CL, in many areas. If they have a codeword for it, they do not need CL at all.
The other main thing is what you want when you buy sex. In some cultures it's also called buying smile, as in the Land of Smiles. The common complain of "she just laid there" may be fitting the profile of being trafficked. But many willing and able girls started just like that, that men do not want in general.
There are always men who want to satisfy their darker desires. As far as the investigations go, it's not cheap as in CL. Pimps / agents are fairly protective even for girls who works because they have a lot of money to repay. They do not want their goods damaged or diseased. Dress them nice and put them in a nice apartment and they will do just fine without having to do extra admin work and take extra risk.
There are pimps/agents who advertise and promise you to earn $10,000 in a week, and put you in a large whore house. But that's another investigation. Not on CL anyway.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Craig's List vs trafficking
I have read the odd domestic trafficking victim's account. Before I debunk some of it, Craig's List adult services was closed down. It's never too late.
The victim:
I don't know about your city or county. The general lawless must be tolerated by politicians and LE. They just turn a blind eye to that part of the city that nobody cares. The incompentence of police blame it on CL.
The argument against Craig's List is that without it, the pimp do not have business and hence will not kidnap children. This is wrong is many ways. The usual argement is that the pimps will turn to the streets. It's not any easier to run away in that part of town where no decent person will dare to enter. If CL is any good, pimps will now know to find somewhere to advertise, Backpages, Cityvibe classfied, or the many classified online and in print.
The irony is that CL is forced to charge by anti-traffickers. It didn't acomplished anything as predicted. All pimps need to do is to buy a disposable phone to register an account, and pay for the ad with a prepared credit card.
The victim:
- kidnaped in front of her home at gun point
- force to sell sex in the most run down part of town
- ran for her life given the chance
I don't know about your city or county. The general lawless must be tolerated by politicians and LE. They just turn a blind eye to that part of the city that nobody cares. The incompentence of police blame it on CL.
The argument against Craig's List is that without it, the pimp do not have business and hence will not kidnap children. This is wrong is many ways. The usual argement is that the pimps will turn to the streets. It's not any easier to run away in that part of town where no decent person will dare to enter. If CL is any good, pimps will now know to find somewhere to advertise, Backpages, Cityvibe classfied, or the many classified online and in print.
The irony is that CL is forced to charge by anti-traffickers. It didn't acomplished anything as predicted. All pimps need to do is to buy a disposable phone to register an account, and pay for the ad with a prepared credit card.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Spell (and tongue scraping)
Sex work has a lot to do with spell. It's not exactly addiction. Sex workers use various way to make you come back for more, for the same girl. Not so much for main stream escorts, with main stream prices. Their nets are wide. You lose some but you easily win someone else. GFE is a kind of spell. If you do that you have a lot less competition.
Strippers and masseuse depend on spell more, the lesser "extra" they provide.
In a strip club, I was sitting on a "public" VIP area, on the same bench with other customers. The stripper next to me sit right on her client's dick, legs around on his back, arms around on his neck. They speak softly occasionally and he just enjoyed the moments. I can't see much in the dim lights but she had a nice outline and if her face wasn't up to standard, she wouldn't be sitting face to face.
He must be her regular. Of course this was also self advertising. If I returned to the club, who would I ask for? You don't get anything if you don't invest enough time and money, which is something I am afraid of. Once the spell works, it's not easy to get out of. Strippers may go out and go all the way, but with a price. If that stripper would go all the way, she wouldn't be wasting time sitting on her client's lap. I'm sure I would enjoy that sort of thing, just like her clients. But at the end it would not be totally fulfilling. It isn't worth the investment, well, before you get any spells on you.
Massage is different. At least you get a massage. An escort once hinted to me that a professional one hour massage cost $50 to $100, more in a spa. Giving you a nice long massage plus fucking just don't add up for the going rate. I agree. But I tend to find two girls who are best at their specialty. Imagine how happy I was when I discovered a secret clubhouse down the road from my fav masseuse's place.
I'm quite afraid of masseuses' spell. At the end of a massage a client is very vulnerable. They know how to give you the best view of their face and their hair. If they want an erection, they know where to push your buttons legally, with you having no options. If they don't, they know where your floaty air valve is, and you will never have an erection. I have done things and girls that I'm not proud of - and that's an understatement.
Once my fav masseuse's place was temporarily closed down by the city. The city will find any excuse to close them down. But I wish they provided any extras. The next door business owner gave me a business card. The massage parlor's owner also own another "clinic" about 20 miles away, where I worked. So I tried.
The masseuse came, who looked outstanding. Tall and slender. Very long stylish hair. Better than my fav except for the face. She never took off her doctor's white coat. The room was pretty dark. And she managed to avoid showing her face in one full hour. Without my glasses I can't figure out how she looked.
Her technique is professional, they all are. But she didn't want to be there, and I'm sure it was me. I don't fit her typically client profile so she wasn't motivated. Middle aged, well to do clients, with love handles to show for it, know how to tip enough. Without decent tips it's a very miserable job.
The other reason is that young single datable guys are very much potential troubles. I have seen college guys come to hit these college girls, 19 year old come to hit on 18 year old, etc. Older guys are more likely to come for the massage only, though hard working pretty girls get all the clients.
The place is so strict that I can't even have the chance to tip her. She walked out when time was up. I had to leave the standard issue from the ATM down at the night stand. I could have saved the money but I might come back, curious to see her face and how she looked with the doctor's coat off. There's no other places to go anyway, for the massage.
The next time I asked for Christina but the owner wouldn't give her to me. I knew because I often walk in at the best of times. Miss Plain came in instead. It was a big disappointment. She was so plain that it could have been deliberate. She is a little small so she could be in high school. She is very polite, obedience and must be a teachers' pet or parents' dream. There's nothing sexual about her appearance, hair, clothes, shoes included. But she isn't ugly, fat, or tomboy. She is just ... plain.
She is those silent workers who gives 100%. Maybe she can't compete on other levels. I couldn't break up a standard ATM bill for tips just because she wasn't that beautiful. I was happy getting her a few more times. When I got the spell and ask for Miss Plain, the owner wouldn't give her to me. Even though her girls are the most trust worthy I have seen, regarding extras, she didn't trust them to me.
Christina came in instead. Just when I bounded with Miss Plain, the owner tried to break us up. You have to know why the owner didn't trust her most trustworthy girls. Christina came in like a different person, giggling, and close the door as if she was locking the door and throwing away the key.
It is one of those times that make you wonder if not wearing the ring is an advantage. At the least, during the dreadful hour, it gives her the chance to fantasize to have such a boy friend. Then she could be shopping instead of giving the massage. Let the other pity girls do the massage.
She gave me decent foot massage - that nobody at her age (and much older) did. My fav didn't even touch my legs much. Her killer move was the abdomen press, as if squeezing semen out of your dick. You have to try it sometime. I really wanted to show her my erection, but I couldn't. Maybe I was really really tired, that's why I came for the first place. Or she knew how to deflate a floaty first, before doing any moves that have sexual side effects.
She respects that I don't talk much, but still trying to strike up some conversation. It came up something like I am so tired and I feel so good. She said in a very cute girly amusing voice, "But it's only Monday!".
That's the last time I saw her. I was afraid that I would be checking into Hotel California, and may never leave.
My fav's parlor reopened after they sort out the legal troubles. I told Sam that I went to the other place. She was almost angry. "They are very good.", she exclaimed, and I know. Probably they are from the same massage school, and corporate trained by the same owner. I understand from Sam's viewpoint that I have no reason not to see Christina instead of her. Worst of all, I worked near Christina, while Sam was at least 20 miles away, much more than an hour's round trip in traffic. I calm her by saying that I travel a lot, and her place is just a turn off the freeway on my way home. That's almost true, when I'm seeing other escorts worth seeing, except for Chanel and Emma.
It's a pity that so many nice things hit you all at once. Caught between Sam and Christina, I hesitated and hesitated, and at the end didn't see any of them any more. After all, Chanel's spell is irresistible (and unfortunately more expensive). Going all the way with a pretty girls isn't that unusual. What irresistible about Chanel is that she does tongue scraping, mutual of course. But I can't say it's really mutual with her all the time. She is a natural when it comes to giving you just enough to keep you. She isn't that calculating, but have that natural instinct.
When she took me for granted, she would stick her tongue out after some DFK, like a little girl making a funny face, without the funny part. You can scrap whatever you want but don't expect that she would reciprocal in kind. But when she sensed that her number one position is threatened, she would scrap you back, more suction DFK, more intense nipple sucking, even a little wet ball kissing, but not scraping it. But she can't even blow well, and you never expect to cum anywhere else except in the condom.
So, if your dictionary don't have tongue scraping, scrap it.
Strippers and masseuse depend on spell more, the lesser "extra" they provide.
In a strip club, I was sitting on a "public" VIP area, on the same bench with other customers. The stripper next to me sit right on her client's dick, legs around on his back, arms around on his neck. They speak softly occasionally and he just enjoyed the moments. I can't see much in the dim lights but she had a nice outline and if her face wasn't up to standard, she wouldn't be sitting face to face.
He must be her regular. Of course this was also self advertising. If I returned to the club, who would I ask for? You don't get anything if you don't invest enough time and money, which is something I am afraid of. Once the spell works, it's not easy to get out of. Strippers may go out and go all the way, but with a price. If that stripper would go all the way, she wouldn't be wasting time sitting on her client's lap. I'm sure I would enjoy that sort of thing, just like her clients. But at the end it would not be totally fulfilling. It isn't worth the investment, well, before you get any spells on you.
Massage is different. At least you get a massage. An escort once hinted to me that a professional one hour massage cost $50 to $100, more in a spa. Giving you a nice long massage plus fucking just don't add up for the going rate. I agree. But I tend to find two girls who are best at their specialty. Imagine how happy I was when I discovered a secret clubhouse down the road from my fav masseuse's place.
I'm quite afraid of masseuses' spell. At the end of a massage a client is very vulnerable. They know how to give you the best view of their face and their hair. If they want an erection, they know where to push your buttons legally, with you having no options. If they don't, they know where your floaty air valve is, and you will never have an erection. I have done things and girls that I'm not proud of - and that's an understatement.
Once my fav masseuse's place was temporarily closed down by the city. The city will find any excuse to close them down. But I wish they provided any extras. The next door business owner gave me a business card. The massage parlor's owner also own another "clinic" about 20 miles away, where I worked. So I tried.
The masseuse came, who looked outstanding. Tall and slender. Very long stylish hair. Better than my fav except for the face. She never took off her doctor's white coat. The room was pretty dark. And she managed to avoid showing her face in one full hour. Without my glasses I can't figure out how she looked.
Her technique is professional, they all are. But she didn't want to be there, and I'm sure it was me. I don't fit her typically client profile so she wasn't motivated. Middle aged, well to do clients, with love handles to show for it, know how to tip enough. Without decent tips it's a very miserable job.
The other reason is that young single datable guys are very much potential troubles. I have seen college guys come to hit these college girls, 19 year old come to hit on 18 year old, etc. Older guys are more likely to come for the massage only, though hard working pretty girls get all the clients.
The place is so strict that I can't even have the chance to tip her. She walked out when time was up. I had to leave the standard issue from the ATM down at the night stand. I could have saved the money but I might come back, curious to see her face and how she looked with the doctor's coat off. There's no other places to go anyway, for the massage.
The next time I asked for Christina but the owner wouldn't give her to me. I knew because I often walk in at the best of times. Miss Plain came in instead. It was a big disappointment. She was so plain that it could have been deliberate. She is a little small so she could be in high school. She is very polite, obedience and must be a teachers' pet or parents' dream. There's nothing sexual about her appearance, hair, clothes, shoes included. But she isn't ugly, fat, or tomboy. She is just ... plain.
She is those silent workers who gives 100%. Maybe she can't compete on other levels. I couldn't break up a standard ATM bill for tips just because she wasn't that beautiful. I was happy getting her a few more times. When I got the spell and ask for Miss Plain, the owner wouldn't give her to me. Even though her girls are the most trust worthy I have seen, regarding extras, she didn't trust them to me.
Christina came in instead. Just when I bounded with Miss Plain, the owner tried to break us up. You have to know why the owner didn't trust her most trustworthy girls. Christina came in like a different person, giggling, and close the door as if she was locking the door and throwing away the key.
It is one of those times that make you wonder if not wearing the ring is an advantage. At the least, during the dreadful hour, it gives her the chance to fantasize to have such a boy friend. Then she could be shopping instead of giving the massage. Let the other pity girls do the massage.
She gave me decent foot massage - that nobody at her age (and much older) did. My fav didn't even touch my legs much. Her killer move was the abdomen press, as if squeezing semen out of your dick. You have to try it sometime. I really wanted to show her my erection, but I couldn't. Maybe I was really really tired, that's why I came for the first place. Or she knew how to deflate a floaty first, before doing any moves that have sexual side effects.
She respects that I don't talk much, but still trying to strike up some conversation. It came up something like I am so tired and I feel so good. She said in a very cute girly amusing voice, "But it's only Monday!".
That's the last time I saw her. I was afraid that I would be checking into Hotel California, and may never leave.
My fav's parlor reopened after they sort out the legal troubles. I told Sam that I went to the other place. She was almost angry. "They are very good.", she exclaimed, and I know. Probably they are from the same massage school, and corporate trained by the same owner. I understand from Sam's viewpoint that I have no reason not to see Christina instead of her. Worst of all, I worked near Christina, while Sam was at least 20 miles away, much more than an hour's round trip in traffic. I calm her by saying that I travel a lot, and her place is just a turn off the freeway on my way home. That's almost true, when I'm seeing other escorts worth seeing, except for Chanel and Emma.
It's a pity that so many nice things hit you all at once. Caught between Sam and Christina, I hesitated and hesitated, and at the end didn't see any of them any more. After all, Chanel's spell is irresistible (and unfortunately more expensive). Going all the way with a pretty girls isn't that unusual. What irresistible about Chanel is that she does tongue scraping, mutual of course. But I can't say it's really mutual with her all the time. She is a natural when it comes to giving you just enough to keep you. She isn't that calculating, but have that natural instinct.
When she took me for granted, she would stick her tongue out after some DFK, like a little girl making a funny face, without the funny part. You can scrap whatever you want but don't expect that she would reciprocal in kind. But when she sensed that her number one position is threatened, she would scrap you back, more suction DFK, more intense nipple sucking, even a little wet ball kissing, but not scraping it. But she can't even blow well, and you never expect to cum anywhere else except in the condom.
So, if your dictionary don't have tongue scraping, scrap it.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Lindsay Lohan
Lindsay has a few things in common with my ATF, Chanel. They could have everything, yet they screw up big time. But still they can afford the detour so far.
Chanel's vice is gambling. She became a hooker to cover her debts because it's not a big deal for her friends who also did it. Once she did it, it's no big deal and she kept doing it to pay for her lifestyle.
They are about the same age. And because of who they are, they tend to get along with people older then them, and they tend to act more mature, superficially.
Lindsay and Chanel are not known for their bodies, but they are proportional, sexy, good looking with clothes on and off. They can't be models and in commercials but I prefer them to Paris Hilton any day.
They once have an angelic face, and no matter how screwed up they are, they still have it. Chanel looks like she has been in and out of prison, if you compare to Lindsay's pictures. At the worst of times, I would told myself that's the last time. It's not bad at all but she had no edge over other hookers. It came to a point when her looks do not worth putting up with her attitude. But everything can change for the better all of a sudden if she wants you, or your money.
Chanel always made me do things by looking into my eyes smiling, and move slowly to within an inch of my eyes. It was most effective when she had absolutely no makeup on.
It's not awkward hanging out with her. Top of the range sun glasses and high heels make her looks older than she is, standard issues for well to do housewives. Her favorite clients (who pay well) are all older so she can handle me, except for the occasional nuclear explosion.
I have healthy hair like a 20 year old, and the hair dressers will cut it like a 20 year old. The little salt and pepper that I treasure will be all gone after a haircut.
I have no railway lines on my forehead. Mrs Player neither. I have to research the old pictures of our parents to see if that's genetics or environmental (physical and mental). It's a sensation at school open day with our kids together.
On vacation my babe magnet in her floaty with half my genes managed to attract a swam of school girls in bikini, flocking to her like moth to fire. On another occasion a single mother with a better body than Lindsay showed off her body a few feet away from me, slowly and thoroughly rubbing on her sun screen. I was alone and the pool wasn't that crowded.
Imagine when just me taking my babe magnet out. People shout her name half a mile away, when I can't even remember her name. The problem is, I think, I don't wear my ring, using skin problems as an excuse to Mrs Player. So I never need to take it off for any reasons, will never lose it and get in trouble. Females who like babies consciously or unconsciously will not mind my instant one. As long as I can pay for everything, I cannot be the wrong guy it seems. I will wear my ring starting from the new school year.
Lindsay and Chanel at least have one good point about them. CD sunglasses, LV bags, Louboutin shoes are no longer their problems. Lindsay is obviously unfilled, though I don't know if she desires bigger toys. Chanel is way pass that. She would just settle for someone she could talk to, get along. Age is not the issue but still you have to be half as rich as her boyfriend - that's only to replace social security I would like to think.
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