To forget or escalate ?

I read with interest Nia's blog entry on regulars. Sure there are negative sides of having regulars, but I never thought much about it on the escorts' perspective. The disadvantages can be:

1. pull a fast one all of a sudden
   
2. escalating into freebie relationships
   
3. escalating into doing something weird

I don't think regulars are more risky than new clients in pulling a fast one. So it's up to an escort to maintain a healthy vigilance on regulars. The problem is that it's hard for some girls to let their guard off, if they ever do. Some girls actually bring this into play. Normally, girls keep regulars by good service. One alternative way is to pretend to be nervous, promising you everything next time and duck out of it with any excuse she can find. It takes a few times for you to realize that they are not going to do anything out of the ordinary.

A girl once agreed to play with me in the shower next time. On the day she agreed to meet on a budget motel. One look at the bathroom and she said "yuk". She refused to enter the bathroom. She never did. Later I dug up her friend's old review and saw the same thing occurred to someone else. I kept her for a while because, among other things, I liked her pink perky nipples, until she put a ring through it.

I wouldn't use the word escalating. I would say it's progressive. It takes two to tango in a relationship. Normally it's a "I really like you but I still have to pay the bill" thing. "You can have me as long as you like, provided that you pay for all my time just like any other people." You can dump him at the first sign of trouble.

In US the safest way for everybody is not to talk about doing anything in particular, not before the date, not before partying, and put the amount in an envelope on the table. So the first meeting can be pretty straight forward or boring if you want something special.

Reviews are popular, a reason being that you can avoid some legally dangerous conversations. But the down side is all-or-nothing - either you offer the same service for everybody or you don't do it at all. Otherwise, you will certainly get troubles from some jealous clients. Though you can let lose for some trusted regular clients who can keep a secret even if he writes reviews.

So being progressive is fun, asking for more, and customizing your own package. Like DFK (and BBBJ). Honestly I don't fancy that from a girl who offer that to all clients. Except for some girls with rather selective client base. But the "selective" price is not something I want to pay on a regular basis. I always try to go further, from no kiss to lip kiss to light kiss to LFK to DFK. Even though she may be playing the game well and offer it to most of her clients, at least there is the fantasy that you are special.

Once I have a fairly new girl, who would have juice flowing with some slight stimulation. She's after quick money and made the most of her talents - her back door is pretty open. That passage alone is expensive too, but as a regular, I got both ways with her for that price. She's rather eager to learn, as she follows her mentor around, who's also her biggest competitor. Then one day, I'm not sure whether she wants money quick before quitting, or she felt that she should complete her education and set a mile stone. After having her both ways, she offered the 2nd round, for a price of course. I wasn't keen as I take all things in moderation. So she threw in BBBJ. I would love to next time but I was afraid that she would change her mind then. However I didn't see there's any point for the hard work there and then unless I also CIM. I told her just that and to my surprised, she agreed.

Her CBJ wasn't bad so I was surprised during the BBBJ, she kept vomiting. Fortunately nothing came out from her stomach. She kept assuring me that the problem wasn't me, but her. I would have stopped her and compensated her in proportion. But I didn't think that it's the money. It's more like she needed the sense of achievement. So I let her. By the way, apart from the annoyance, her reaction is priceless to me.

When I was about to explode, she was vomiting again. But she's a really responsibly person. When I signaled her the emergency, she rushed her mouth to where it was needed, just in time to catch everything. I felt so happy for her completing her mission against all odds, that I had the urge to take out a sword, dip on her shoulders, and declare her a knight.